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the nerve

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so i just found out today that we are going to miscarry at 9w5d's and one of my BFF's one of the very few who knew asked me when we are going to try again my DH and I were just appalled.  I get it you don't know what to say but that is not something I can even think about considering I have to wait for this one to still takes it course. 

Thought I was going to be spreading the news soon and this was not the news I was expecting.

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  • Laurakat81Laurakat81 member
    I'm sorry for your loss and that you had to hear that. People are just idiots.

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  • MrsMitty08MrsMitty08
    I am so sorry for your loss.  I really think people just have no idea what to say.
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  • MuffinhbMuffinhb member
    im so sorry for your loss. no really knows what to say. i wish people knew that sometimes silence is the best thing

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  • laurenaclaurenac

    So very sorry for your loss.  I agree with other posters - I also wish that some people who don't know what to say would just saying nothing at all. 

    I had a friend tell me how sad she was that I had a m/c because another good friend of hers just announced she was pregnant and that we were only one week apart.  She said she was really looking forward to us both being pregnant together.  Now she gives me updates on how her friend is doing all the time!!! 

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