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after 7 years I think we need a professional to help us

After 7 years of being together my husband I finally tied the knot. We have always wanted to have a baby so we never used any contraceptives. There has been no signs of pregnancy....ever. Once we got married about 6 months ago I decided to make more of an effort instead of just winging it. Ive doing the chart and I cant seem to get it right. I tried tracking with just BBT also, Ive learned the signs of ovulation but yet no baby. My husband keeps saying there is something medically wrong with me, I disagree. I only disgree because I have a 10 year daughter (prior to meeting my husband) He will not go to a doctor to have himself tested. Sometimes I feel like i'm over thinking the situation n maybe thats causing alot of x-tra stress which could be our problem. I try to tell myself to leave it up to nature and when it's the right time it'll happen. Im having a hard time with that concept tho. I'm becoming very depressed. All of our friends are getting pregnant and although i'm EXTREMELY happy for them I can't help but to be jealous n angry over the situation. Any advice?

Re: after 7 years I think we need a professional to help us

  • It would not hurt to talk to your gynecologist, or bring it up at your next appointment. Even if you have a daughter, things could have happened between now and then to cause problems. You can go through a basic battery of tests, and if they come up OK you will need to work on your husband.

    GL

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  • You can bring this up with your OB/GYN and then get a referral to a fertility specialist. You'll get a bunch of labwork done, a few ultrasounds to make sure everything is where isn't suppososed to be and working just fine. Then you can bring him your medical "all clear" and tell him to go get himself tested. Good luck!
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