TTC After a Loss

yeah...I'm that girl

So...I had a huge presentation today that I've been preparing all month for (in between being out for a week with our loss). I am supposed to be in the meeting presenting it now, but had a complete nervous breakdown.

 I basically ran in our VPs office mid anxiety attack, broken out in hives, crying, shaking, said I couldn't do the presentation and ran out....

 When does this get better??? 

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  • I'm so sorry ((big hugs)).

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  • Oh my goodness, honey I'm so sorry!! It gets easier with time.... (((hugs)))

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  • Thanks ladies:) I'm just lying in bed now hoping I can finally calm down
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  • I'm really sorry! It will get easier but it was a slow process for me. Take care of you!
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  • I'm so sorry.  Take care of you and take the time you need.  It was hard for me to deal with any type of extra stress after my m/c.  We were in the middle of getting approved to buy a house and I was interviewing for jobs.  I feel like I near lost my mind.  I'm hoping that time will help.  ((Hugs to You))
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  • (((hugs))). I'm so sorry - make sure you are taking care of yourself.

  • (((hugs))) i am so sorry.  I think time is the only answer, and I don't know if it ever gets really better, maybe just easier.  That's how I feel right now anyway.  Feel better, it sounds like you are doing to right thing to lie down and take a break.
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  • Oh I am so sorry to hear this. Great big ((((HUGS)))). Take care of yourself. Thinking of you.
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  • I am so sorry! Big Hugs. It's been over a month since my loss and my goodness it still hurts! But the ladies are right it does get better!

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  • I'm so sorry! There are good days and there are bad days. Just try to relax and take it easy today. It is easier to cope with the loss as time goes by, but it is still hard. After my loss I just wanted to hide out for awhile, but two months later I am feeling a lot more optimistic towards life in general. I still have bad days every once in awhile. Every women is different, but I hope that things will get better for you soon. It is okay to take some time out to just take care of yourself right now. (((HUGS)))
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  • I'm so sorry!!  I think we've all been there at some point. 

    I'm pretty sure that I lost a potential $100K+ client for our company with a less than stellar interview a week after my first loss.  

    As PP said, it really does get better over time.  

  • You all are too sweet:) I am starting to feel better. I think I just pushed myself too hard. Thanks for all the words of encouragement. 
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  • I'm so sorry you're having a rough day.
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  • I am so sorry!  ((big hugs))
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  • I am so sorry.  Grief can sometimes just come out of nowehere and knock you to you knees.  It does get better.  Please give yourself some time to heal, nothing is more important than making sure that you feel better emotionally and physically.  ((HUGS))

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  • I am so sorry. ((((BIG HUGE HUGS))))
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  • Aww - so sorry you're having such a rough day :(   Someday this is supposed to get easier right?  

     I hope you can relax and take care of yourself today and this weekend.  Huge (((HUGS)))

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  • I'm so sorry <hugs>  I found it got better after my second AF, but its different for everyone.
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  • :( so sorry and lots of hugs! I hope it gets better for you..  lots of time seems to be the only thing healing this pain..


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  • I'm so sorry!  I hope they understand and you can do it later. ((BIG HUGS))

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  • I'm so sorry...HUGE (((hugs))).

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  • I'm so sorry. That's a tough day. I'm almost three months in and I'm still having days like that... like today. (((HUGS)))
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  • I am so sorry you had such a bad day.  I hope you are feeling better now.
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  • I'm so sorry!  Just take things one day at a time.  (((HUGS)))
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  • I'm so sorry!
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