Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

stuipd, stupid, stupid!

Why did I just go onto the Sept 2011 board?  Why?  Ugh!!!
BFP #1 2/8/2008 - Evan born 10/3/2008 via c/s @ 38wks
BFP #2 12/31/2010 (EDD 9/1/11) -- Natrual m/c 1/9/10
BFP #3 12/20/2011 - EDD 8/25/12
u/s 1/6/12 - HB & beautiful bean
A/S 4/2 - It's a Girl!!!
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Re: stuipd, stupid, stupid!

  • I still go to the Aug 2011 board almost everyday.  I can't help myself.  It's just not fair that those girls are all so happy and planning their nurseries, and I am here instead.  I feel like I've been kicked out of a really awesome club.
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  • I have yet to go back to the Sept 2011 board. Hello to a fellow CT mommy. I am sorry for your loss. It's sad that we have to be here.
    Lisa~ Married to Matt PCOS~ 2010, MTHFR & Factor V Leiden 10/2011 Loving Mother to 3 children and 13 angels in Heaven Baby #4 EDD 6/17/12~Became an angel 10/18/11 @ 6 weeks Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers My little one You have left us too soon Though my body can no longer hold you I hold you forever in my heart As precious and beautiful as this flower caught in time A mother's love does not forget
  • imageAnglWngzCT:
    I have yet to go back to the Sept 2011 board. Hello to a fellow CT mommy. I am sorry for your loss. It's sad that we have to be here.

    Hey there :)  I am sorry for you loss.  When did you come over here?  I had to take a bump break for a few days.  I think it helped me a lot.  I love the ladies on this board but I must admit this is not where I wanted to meet you guys.

    BFP #1 2/8/2008 - Evan born 10/3/2008 via c/s @ 38wks
    BFP #2 12/31/2010 (EDD 9/1/11) -- Natrual m/c 1/9/10
    BFP #3 12/20/2011 - EDD 8/25/12
    u/s 1/6/12 - HB & beautiful bean
    A/S 4/2 - It's a Girl!!!
    RCS on 8/20/12
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  • imageFroggy76:
    I still go to the Aug 2011 board almost everyday.  I can't help myself.  It's just not fair that those girls are all so happy and planning their nurseries, and I am here instead.  I feel like I've been kicked out of a really awesome club.

    Me too!  It's so frustrating and so so extra sad...saw the hump day bump day pics and everything! Embarrassed

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    BFP 03/03/11, EDD 11/09/11, We love you so much already, our sweet little munchkin!!!
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  • was just over to the may 2011 board......bad bad idea.
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  • We found out 2 days ago that our baby had no heart beat :(
    Lisa~ Married to Matt PCOS~ 2010, MTHFR & Factor V Leiden 10/2011 Loving Mother to 3 children and 13 angels in Heaven Baby #4 EDD 6/17/12~Became an angel 10/18/11 @ 6 weeks Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers My little one You have left us too soon Though my body can no longer hold you I hold you forever in my heart As precious and beautiful as this flower caught in time A mother's love does not forget
  • imageHadleyS:

    imageFroggy76:
    I still go to the Aug 2011 board almost everyday.  I can't help myself.  It's just not fair that those girls are all so happy and planning their nurseries, and I am here instead.  I feel like I've been kicked out of a really awesome club.

    Me too!  It's so frustrating and so so extra sad...saw the hump day bump day pics and everything! Embarrassed

    i have agree with both of you. i go on there almost everyday and its not fair. i can only be nice though because they were nothing but nice to me when i was there and i dont wany to see anymore aug 11 moms over here 


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    BFP#2 05.08.11 Birthday 1.11.12 Peyton
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  • Ladies...please, please, stop doing this to yourselves!  It's not like anything positive is going to come from visiting those boards.  I was on the August 2011 board and have not been back since my loss.  I know that it would only cause me pain.  However, I have visited the Pregnant after a Loss board a few times.  It gives me hope that maybe sometime this year I'll be able to join that board. 
  • imageAnglWngzCT:
    We found out 2 days ago that our baby had no heart beat :(

    I am so sorry.  I never even made it that far.  I am not sure which is worse, you know?  either way it's a terrible loss.  I remember on the 2nd getting terrible lower back pain.  & then it started & I just knew.  there was no question in my mind. 

    BFP #1 2/8/2008 - Evan born 10/3/2008 via c/s @ 38wks
    BFP #2 12/31/2010 (EDD 9/1/11) -- Natrual m/c 1/9/10
    BFP #3 12/20/2011 - EDD 8/25/12
    u/s 1/6/12 - HB & beautiful bean
    A/S 4/2 - It's a Girl!!!
    RCS on 8/20/12
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  • imageerikaja6:
    Ladies...please, please, stop doing this to yourselves!  It's not like anything positive is going to come from visiting those boards.  I was on the August 2011 board and have not been back since my loss.  I know that it would only cause me pain.  However, I have visited the Pregnant after a Loss board a few times.  It gives me hope that maybe sometime this year I'll be able to join that board. 

    Valid point.  That is a good board to look at indeed.  I will visit there instead.  i don't know why I keep getting drawn back.  Like PP said, it's like a club I got kicked out of & now i am outside looking in wishing with everything I have that i was there too.  I need to start moving forward & not looking back.

    BFP #1 2/8/2008 - Evan born 10/3/2008 via c/s @ 38wks
    BFP #2 12/31/2010 (EDD 9/1/11) -- Natrual m/c 1/9/10
    BFP #3 12/20/2011 - EDD 8/25/12
    u/s 1/6/12 - HB & beautiful bean
    A/S 4/2 - It's a Girl!!!
    RCS on 8/20/12
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  • imageMuffinhb:
    imageHadleyS:

    imageFroggy76:
    I still go to the Aug 2011 board almost everyday.  I can't help myself.  It's just not fair that those girls are all so happy and planning their nurseries, and I am here instead.  I feel like I've been kicked out of a really awesome club.

    Me too!  It's so frustrating and so so extra sad...saw the hump day bump day pics and everything! Embarrassed

    i have agree with both of you. i go on there almost everyday and its not fair. i can only be nice though because they were nothing but nice to me when i was there and i dont wany to see anymore aug 11 moms over here 

    I hear what you are saying, exactly.  I only encountered over-the-top sweetness from that board, and I think that's maybe why I keep looking.  There's a lot of new ones on there that I never met, but I always look for familiar names and read their posts.  I am definitely happy that they are happy, and have nothing but joy for their healthy pregnancies.  It's just kinda sucky because I was so settled in that group so quickly.  I don't think I'll stop looking at the Aug 2011 board until September 2011, how crazy!?  Okay, sorry to totally hijack this post.

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    *Congrats to my buddy, Izabella22 (BFP 5/11/11)!!!Sending you Ts and Ps for a healthy, take-home baby!
    *Congrats to my buddy, myaddiwaddi06(BFP 10/31/11)!!!Sending you Ts and Ps for a healthy, take-home baby!
  • imageChristinaCT:
    Why did I just go onto the Sept 2011 board?  Why?  Ugh!!!

    I never gave you hugs over this.  I am sorry, this is a tough day! (((BIG HUGS)))  I will have to harder to keep you in better company here for awhile.  I post on TTCAL a lot, partially because it is a very active board and they also post unrelated stuff that helps perk me up from time to time.  I hope that your day gets better.

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    BFP 12/05/10 (EDD 8/8/11), empty gestational sac 12/31/10, natural miscarriage 01/05/11
    BFP 03/03/11, EDD 11/09/11, We love you so much already, our sweet little munchkin!!!
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    *Congrats to buddies MrsAtch, cflocco, MommyandKate, luckylady55, opallover, trishiepoo, stephsteph77, and Pachita! Praying for healthy babies for all of you!*
    *Congrats to my buddy, Izabella22 (BFP 5/11/11)!!!Sending you Ts and Ps for a healthy, take-home baby!
    *Congrats to my buddy, myaddiwaddi06(BFP 10/31/11)!!!Sending you Ts and Ps for a healthy, take-home baby!
  • imageHadleyS:

    imageChristinaCT:
    Why did I just go onto the Sept 2011 board?  Why?  Ugh!!!

    I never gave you hugs over this.  I am sorry, this is a tough day! (((BIG HUGS)))  I will have to harder to keep you in better company here for awhile.  I post on TTCAL a lot, partially because it is a very active board and they also post unrelated stuff that helps perk me up from time to time.  I hope that your day gets better.

    Thanks Darlin!  You are awesome :)  I am thinking of going over to TTCAL.  Once I get AF again I think we will get back on the horse, so to speak.  Super nervous about it though, honestly.

    BFP #1 2/8/2008 - Evan born 10/3/2008 via c/s @ 38wks
    BFP #2 12/31/2010 (EDD 9/1/11) -- Natrual m/c 1/9/10
    BFP #3 12/20/2011 - EDD 8/25/12
    u/s 1/6/12 - HB & beautiful bean
    A/S 4/2 - It's a Girl!!!
    RCS on 8/20/12
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  • I feel the same way about the August 2011 board. I haven't been over there since I had the D&C, and I don't plan on going back until I can post a BFP update. I feel like I immediately fit into that board and I got to know the first group of them pretty well because I had an early Aug. EDD. PP was right, it's like we got kicked out of a really awesome club.

    I also lurk on the TTCAL board because I hope to be there soon!

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  • imageJThomas221:

    I feel the same way about the August 2011 board. I haven't been over there since I had the D&C, and I don't plan on going back until I can post a BFP update.

    This, exactly. I think there would be some major floodworks in my house if I even peeked... Let's hope we all make it back over there asap! 

    BFP #1: EDD 8/29/11, MMC 1/14/11. BFP #2: Damien Isaac born 12/16/11. BFP #3: Rowen Cole born 7/28/14. BFP #4: EDD 9/16/16.

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