wow some people...just WOW!

christineandaaron · January 2011

yesterday my husband and i had someone come out to give us an estimate to repair some things in our crawl space and i just about killed the guy after a comment he made. we started off on the wrong foot to begin with but then it just got worse. after making a few nice comments about how beautiful our house was he said.."do you have any kids" i of course had to reply "no" but then he said "well good you don't want them anyway" OMG i about punched him then and there. he went on to say a whole bunch of sh!t about how your life will never be the same blah blah blah. he has 3 kids. THREE!! why does someone who doesn't even want kids get to have them. ugh.

i was even more pissed because i knew AF was going to show up today (of course she did right on time). after all of that i went and got a manicure for myself LOL i was so angry and so angry at God last night. i feel horrible for feeling that way but some days it is so hard to understand why things are the way they are.

emeraudecephiro · January 2011

I'm sorry he was insensitive, people are dumb sometimes.

mizdiz444 · January 2011

People are stupid sometimes. Sorry he was such a jerk. (((hugs)))

vitan · January 2011

Guess he didn't want your money. Next time he should brush up on his "what not to talk about with clients" skills.

I'm sorry that you had a sucky night. Hope the manicure helped a bit.

Tapatio · January 2011

That guy was an insensitive dumb @$$.

jertie · January 2011

I'm so sorry that you had to deal with that a$$hat. People really, really need to keep their trap shut about children and babies. ((BIG HUGS))

LaraGaudess · January 2011

I feel for you, I am so sick of hearing people complain about having kids! If only they knew what it was like to actually have one taken away... What an idiot. You're pretty forgiving to have put up with that.

Carolee · January 2011

I'm so sorry...I would be really upset after that also. (((Hugs)))

psumel13 · January 2011

You should have told him off! People need to realize when they hurt others feelings!

sgrobste · January 2011

For some reason it is always the people who have the good things that do not appreciate them. I hope your day is better today.

Gilgenbach2007 · January 2011

Sorry he was such a jerk. Good for you for going out and doing something for yourself.

Also, AF can suck it.

Gaberinos · January 2011

I'm sorry he said that to you. I had someone say almost the same thing to me about a month after my loss. I just had to grit and bare it since I didn't want any problems, but I still haven't forgotten it. Having a loss definitely gives a new perspective on this. Some people just really don't understand how it feels to be in our shoes!