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One whole month.. (Pregnancies and babies mentioned)

WifeyWynn0626WifeyWynn0626
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Hi ladies.I'd First, I'd like to sadly "welcome" all the new faces here. It's been a hectic and emotional past few days or so and I know I've missed some. As you've already been told this is a great support system and the women here are wonderful. I hope you all have some gained some type of comfort here even though being here is sucky.

Between this past Sunday til today, I've have to deal with 3 pregnant women in my life. Long story short, one is my BFF due in May, another is a family friend who's due two day before me and the third and kicker is my cousin who had her baby yesterday. Beautiful 8lb little girl. Healthy as can be. She was born yesterday, just a day short of my 1 month marker of my D&C. Needless to say, it was rough and  today is worse. It's not like I haven't know for the past 9 months is was coming but, I never thought I'd have to deal with it under these circumstances. Being sick, I haven't gone to see her but I'm dreading that day because I don't want to look like an idiot crying all over a new baby. I thought I was making progress but, I just took about 2000 steps back in the past few days. I kinda feel stuck in limbo all over again.

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  • busterbeaglebusterbeagle member

    I'm so sorry you have been having a rough time.  It sucks so bad that the healing process just can't be linear, with every day getting easier than the one before it. 

    BFP#1 11-26-10 MMC 1-13-11
    BFP#2 6-8-11 Eleanor Beatrice born 2-15-12
    BFP#3 9-4-13 Benjamin Lee born 4-28-14

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  • AnglWngzCTAnglWngzCT
    Unfortunately this grieving process is full of ups and downs. Time will heal your heart. It has always been difficult for me to be around babies while I am grieving my own. We understand and care about what you are going through. Take it one day at a time
    Lisa~ Married to Matt PCOS~ 2010, MTHFR & Factor V Leiden 10/2011 Loving Mother to 3 children and 13 angels in Heaven Baby #4 EDD 6/17/12~Became an angel 10/18/11 @ 6 weeks Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers My little one You have left us too soon Though my body can no longer hold you I hold you forever in my heart As precious and beautiful as this flower caught in time A mother's love does not forget
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  • coreysmommacoreysmomma

    I am so sorry.  It is so hard with all of that around you.  I can relate. I am at just about 2 weeks since I lost the baby and I am a mess most days... I am feeling ok today, but yesterday was so hard.  I found out someone in my department is pg right when I was due...

    I really hope you feel better.

     Danielle

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  • ECHC829ECHC829

    Oh WifeyWynn.... my "loss date buddy"  (not quite as fun as a 'due date buddy').... I'm so sorry you are still having ups and downs, but you are not alone.  I think I need to start taking each day one at time and stop expecting "recovery" from myself.....  this is going to be a long ride, and it seems no one understands that but us. 

     

    I hope you feel better soon (your cold and your emotions)  :)


    BFP#1 11.2.10 | EDD 7.9.11 | HB 7w2d & 8w4d | missed M/C 11w2d | D&E 12.21.10
    FSH at 14.5 - 4.21.11 | CCCT - (CD3 8.8,CD10 12.2)| dx w/ DOR @ 28 yrs old
    IUI#1 + clomid 8.29.11 (our anniversary)
    BFP#2 9.10.11 | EDD 5.21.12 | beta 1 @ 14dpi:232 | beta 2 @17dpi:703 | beta 3 @24dpi:7,174
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  • mom22labsmom22labs member

    My SIL had a baby 3 days before I had my ultrasound of my missed m/c.  What a let down that was, after holding her new born thinking this will be me in 7 months.  It was very hard seeing them through the holidays with Thanksgiving then Christmas.  I could not bring myself to even hold her...I didn't really mind being around her but I just couldn't hold her.  I'm sure they understood, but sad indeed.

    You have every right to feel whatever it is your feeling.

    BFP #1 10/05/10 (EDD 6/10/11) , natural m/c 11/24/10 BFP #2 1/20/12 (EDD 9/20/12) , natural m/c 3/3/12 BFP #3 10/09/12 (EDD 6/20/12), hoping third times a charm
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  • LDW80LDW80
    I am so sorry you are feeling like this.  It will be 4 weeks for me since my d&c on Tuesday and  still have rough days.  I was great this past week but yesterday and today I have been feeling really down again.  I know everyone says "time will heal" but how long will that be?!?  I know these next 5 months are going to be the hardest because that is when I should still be pregnant.  Everytime I see the month July I immediately get sad or break down (that was when I am due).  I don't think it is helping us all that it is cold and gloomy out and everyone is stuck inside.  I am thinking of you and hoping we all can move forward soon.  ((hugs)) 
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    BFP#3 10-25-10 *EDD 7/1/11 * missed m/c @ 13w3d
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