Just because... I think you're a bad mommy if _________

Vuja_de · January 2011

(please add your own)

you let your child sit and pee and poo all day without changing his/her diaper

you never bathe your child

you don't feed your child

you don't properly clothe your child

you never comfort or show affection to your child

you beat your child

trackchik6 · January 2011

you judge other moms

Ruffles&Rust · January 2011

All you (vuja_da) mentioned above &

you dont interact with your child

simplyatomic · January 2011

All the above and:

You feed your child junk.

You do drugs.

You pawn your child off any chance you can.

Vuja_de · January 2011

trackchik6:
you judge other moms

wicked bad

simplyatomic · January 2011

Vuja_de:
trackchik6:
you judge other moms

wicked bad

We ALL have a little Judgy McJudgerson in us. Stick out tongue

FerreraRocher · January 2011

you don't admit you make mistakes and apologize for them

you are a "do as I say not as I do" parent all the time

you judge other parents without knowing where they are coming from

you abuse your child mentally or physically

trackchik6 · January 2011

simplyatomic:
Vuja_de:
trackchik6:
you judge other moms
wicked bad
We ALL have a little Judgy McJudgerson in us.

I know it was judgy of me to write it!!! :-P

ETA: And I'm judging all the teen mom 2 show ppl in my post above

EastCoastBride · January 2011

you don't respect your childs schedule and their need to sleep.

July_2009 · January 2011

you spend every waking minute on the bump and neglecting your child.

CatyBee · January 2011

Use drugs.

Abuse your child.

Neglect your child.

Don't discipline your child.

Don't feed your child proper nutrition.

Put your child on Toddler & Tiaras.

AggieGrl · January 2011

CatyBee:
Put your child on Toddler & Tiaras.

LOL, this.

You are lax on carseat safety, ie: not following recommendations for RF/FF/booster seats.

mxpxgirl13 · January 2011

Everything everyone said, including letting your child be your "friend", there are parents out there that party with their child.. and then the child never grows respect for the parent ever again.

mxpxgirl13 · January 2011

July_2009:
you spend every waking minute on the bump and neglecting your child.

Good one.

kimthgrt · January 2011

get drunk/ in front of your kid

smoke in the same vicinity as your kid

discuss sex life with your kid (once they are older)

let them CIO at several weeks when they dont have colic or other medical issues

essey1234 · January 2011

I think your a bad mommy if/ i judge you if...

a)your child can go up to you, say milk, undo your shirt and breastfeed. because if this happens your child is too old

b)if you give your child a pacifier because you think it's easier and don't want to listen to the cry

emmared1986 · January 2011

essey1234:

a)your child can go up to you, say milk, undo your shirt and breastfeed. because if this happens your child is too old

::sigh::

Go say that on the AP board. Pretty please.

ToledoDeux · January 2011

you don't vaccinate.

ljlkm · January 2011

essey1234:

I think your a bad mommy if/ i judge you if...

a)your child can go up to you, say milk, undo your shirt and breastfeed. because if this happens your child is too old

I'm a bad mom! Sweet!

nolebride · January 2011

If you smoke around your children. This includes smoking outside and coming back in and getting all up in your child's face.

heatherlane · January 2011

emmared1986:
essey1234:

a)your child can go up to you, say milk, undo your shirt and breastfeed. because if this happens your child is too old

::sigh::
Go say that on the AP board. Pretty please.

Yes, please.

iris427 · January 2011

essey1234:

I think your a bad mommy if/ i judge you if...
a)your child can go up to you, say milk, undo your shirt and breastfeed. because if this happens your child is too old

::shining Bad Mommy badge::

sunnyday016 · January 2011

essey1234:

I think your a bad mommy if/ i judge you if...
a)your child can go up to you, say milk, undo your shirt and breastfeed. because if this happens your child is too old

I guess I'm a bad mom too. FYI kids can do that before they're even 2. Are you really saying that under 2 is too old to BF?

Here are mine:

If you FF your child before they meet the legal requirements. I side-eye those that FF at the bare minimum requirements.

Do drugs/get drunk/smoke around your child. Well, even if you do drugs not around your child, I judge that.

whirli · January 2011

ljlkm:
essey1234:

I think your a bad mommy if/ i judge you if...

a)your child can go up to you, say milk, undo your shirt and breastfeed. because if this happens your child is too old

I'm a bad mom! Sweet!

Me too! Kickass!

andrealynn0707 · January 2011

You spend more than .2 seconds caring about what other moms do with their kids.

essey1234 · January 2011

sorry to offend but the question was asked and i answered.

a friend and i were at a birthday party, and some lady had a 3.5 year old , came up, undid her shirt and screamed for milk. if you all think that's OK, so be it.

I do not

whirli · January 2011

essey1234:
sorry to offend but the question was asked and i answered.

a friend and i were at a birthday party, and some lady had a 3.5 year old , came up, undid her shirt and screamed for milk. if you all think that's OK, so be it.

I do not

Not offended, just amused that someone would pick bf age to judge rather than neglectful or abusive behavior. This must have been a traumatic experience.

ljlkm · January 2011

essey1234:
sorry to offend but the question was asked and i answered.

a friend and i were at a birthday party, and some lady had a 3.5 year old , came up, undid her shirt and screamed for milk. if you all think that's OK, so be it.

I do not

That will probably be me. Except for the lifting up the shirt and screaming part. Because that's really not appropriate behavior. I'm honestly not offended by your comment or your disapproval. It makes me a little sad for society, but that's all.

sarcole530 · January 2011

I don't necessarily think mine makes smoeone a bad mom, but I HATE when I see moms/dads out and about with their children in 20 degree weather, and their kids have no hat or gloves on... but the parents do.

sunnyday016 · January 2011

essey1234:
sorry to offend but the question was asked and i answered.

a friend and i were at a birthday party, and some lady had a 3.5 year old , came up, undid her shirt and screamed for milk. if you all think that's OK, so be it.

I do not

I think the issue (at least IMO) isn't that the child is still BFing, it's that they don't know how to appropriately ask for what they want (as far as place, time, using words instead of screaming, etc.)

KaydensMommy42010 · January 2011

trackchik6:
you judge other moms

This.

KaydensMommy42010 · January 2011

trackchik6:
simplyatomic:
Vuja_de:

trackchik6:
you judge other moms

wicked bad

We ALL have a little Judgy McJudgerson in us.

I know it was judgy of me to write it!!! :-P

ETA: And I'm judging all the teen mom 2 show ppl in my post above

I must have missed where a mom on Teen Mom 2 beat their child?

Chrysallys · January 2011

essey1234:

I think your a bad mommy if/ i judge you if...

a)your child can go up to you, say milk, undo your shirt and breastfeed. because if this happens your child is too old

b)if you give your child a pacifier because you think it's easier and don't want to listen to the cry

I judge you for saying such stupid sh!te such as this.

KaydensMommy42010 · January 2011

Vuja_de:

(please add your own)

you only change your child's diaper 3 times a day

you never bathe your child

you don't feed your child

you don't properly clothe your child

you never comfort or show affection to your child

you beat your child

Guess I am a bad mom sometimes too! Can't help that sometimes my child doesn't poop or pee alot!

KaydensMommy42010 · January 2011

Vuja_de:

(please add your own)

you only change your child's diaper 3 times a day

you never bathe your child

you don't feed your child

you don't properly clothe your child

you never comfort or show affection to your child

you beat your child

Guess I am a bad mom sometimes too! Can't help that sometimes my child doesn't poop or pee alot!

KaydensMommy42010 · January 2011

Vuja_de:

(please add your own)

you only change your child's diaper 3 times a day

you never bathe your child

you don't feed your child

you don't properly clothe your child

you never comfort or show affection to your child

you beat your child

Guess I am a bad mom sometimes too! Can't help that sometimes my child doesn't poop or pee alot!

KaydensMommy42010 · January 2011

I don't know why that posted three times.

Vuja_de · January 2011

KaydensMommy42010:
Vuja_de:

(please add your own)

you only change your child's diaper 3 times a day

you never bathe your child

you don't feed your child

you don't properly clothe your child

you never comfort or show affection to your child

you beat your child

Guess I am a bad mom sometimes too! Can't help that sometimes my child doesn't poop or pee alot!

OMFG, I am talking about parents that let their kid sit in pee and poo all day, come on you are bright enough to realize that. FFS!

KaydensMommy42010 · January 2011

Vuja_de:
KaydensMommy42010:
Vuja_de:

(please add your own)

you only change your child's diaper 3 times a day

you never bathe your child

you don't feed your child

you don't properly clothe your child

you never comfort or show affection to your child

you beat your child

Guess I am a bad mom sometimes too! Can't help that sometimes my child doesn't poop or pee alot!

OMFG, I am talking about parents that let their kid sit in pee and poo all day, come on you are bright enough to realize that. FFS!

You shoul really edit that to say 'you're a bad mom if you let you child sit in their wet diapers all day'

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