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Postpartum Depression
Noob, everything but baby...
Ugh... I am embarrassed to be writing this but I need to get it out.
I haven't been anywhere except for SO's family's houses for holidays and taking DS1 to school and an occasional trip to Target.
MR CLJ has a job that he has been at for a few years. He makes 'ok' money, which is fine b/c we have no house payment. He has a job offer making 3x his hourly wage at present, with great bennies and all kinds of OT, he doesn't want to take it. I am so frustrated over this.
My mother hasn't been over to see us since Christmas, when they showed up an hour late to my breakfast. SO's parents make it a point to see us at least once a week.
My OB brought to my attention that I have endometriosis adhesions ALL OVER my bowel, which explains alot to me. He also says that I will most likely need a bowel resection...which will affect my abilty and the timeline to have another baby. Mr CLJ is saying not right now...
I am so upset over everything going on. I am not sure if this is PPD or everything else?
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Re: Noob, everything but baby...
Def get out and do something for yourself. I didn't leave Marlie's side for 26 days. I was literally loosing my mind. That is way too long to be with anyone without a break.
I also can relate about your mom not calling. My parents got divorced when I was 5 and my dad wasn't around much, but when I started driving we got closer. He came up to see me the day Marli was born (Nov 26th) and then I didn't hear from him. I was in town for Christmas so I called him to see if he wanted to see us and we stopped by for a few hours. I haven't spoken to him since. I know it's tough, but at least you have his family. My fiance's family is amazing, usually. His mom asks how I am doing everyday.
Things will get better, you won't feel like this forever, I promise. I agree with PP though, you really need to get out and do something for yourself.