At what point do you want to go back to work or school? Once the kids are in school, before then?
I've been wanting to go back to school and have been looking at Oct. of this year which would put the girls at just over 2 and 10 mos. The program that I want to do is 2 days a week from 6pm to 10, and two Saturdays a month.
I'm struggling with wondering if that's too soon to go back and if it would be better for me to wait till they're school age, but part of me wants to be work ready by the time they get to school.
DH isn't crazy about me wanting to go back when they're still that little, but I don't think 8 hours a week is too much to have them with a babysitter, especially when they'll be in bed for half that time. He's home on Saturdays so they'd be with him then.
What are your plans?
Re: If you SAH now, but have plans to return to work or school.
There's definitely no right or wrong answer here.
As for me, I plan to go back PT when I do back and stay that way for a long time; I want to be available when the kids are home from school. With my profession, that should be no problem as long as nothing happens to DH so I don't have to rely on myself for benefits!
I'm thinking about putting the boys in preschool in the fall (at 2y9m) and starting to work very part-time then. They would only go 2-3 mornings a week. I *might* hold off till they're 3.5 but we'll see. DH and I really need to figure that out, since fall preschool enrollment is happening now!