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Guilty!!!

missbeckreepmissbeckreep member
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Went to the gym & worked out for 2 hours, then went to mcdonalds and ate like a pig! I had a bummer day and tomorrow is my hysterosalpingogram--so its ok right?~ lol
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Re: Guilty!!!

  • SLPMelSLPMel member

    I don't mean to offend you-but do you have an eating disorder or eating issues?  The only reason why I ask is because you had posted that you are 35 pounds underweight, and to hear that you are working out for 2 hours at the gym, sends red flags up for me.  It's kind of like when Guiliana Rancic didn't want to gain the 5 pounds her RE wanted her too.  If your body is not healthy, then the chances of conceiving go down immensely. 

    (I struggled with anorexia and compulsive exercise myself, so I hope this doesn't come across wrong)

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  • missbeckreepmissbeckreep member
    I <3 food too much to have an eating disorder.  Havent worked out a day in my life until last tuesday-DH and I joined a local gym. So im trying to get healthy in the right way i guess! Ive gained 5lbs since Jan 3rd so my RE will be happy tomorrow.  I normally do an hour work out but we played a game of basketball tonight with friends to.  He did alot of blood work to find out if my weight is a prob or not so i will find more out on feb 10th.  But he said he doubts it since im still gettin AF every month and devleoping my eggs myself. Never been over 100lbs in my life, tinyness runs in my family, but i'm trying. Sorry you struggled with that in your life :-/, i have a few friends that also did, but they have overcame it, but it wasnt easy for them.  But anyhow, no i dont have an eating disorder, your not the only one that thinks that...people judge people quickly, so one look at me and that is people guess.
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  • ginogomermisserginogomermisser member

    missbeckreep......I am actually in the same boat as you. Although the only difference is that I have absolutely no interest in going to a gym. I go to Yoga once a week, but that is about it. I weigh 105 and 5'6. I eat everything in site but unfortunately dont gain. Doctor said this isnt a problem because AF is there and eggs are great. I also have been tiny my entire life and absolutely hate being looked at like I'm anorexic or people saying "just eat more". Just how overweight people suffer with self image or stigmas, thin people do too. I wish I could gain about 25 pounds but cant make it happen. Consumed shakes, food, PB and J everynight but nothing. Doctor says everyone is different and I'm totally healthy. I hate my body image but have to live with what God gave me. Good Luck on HSG, let me know how it works out for ya :) Everyone has weaknesses and apparently McDonalds was your today. Dont make a habit out of it though :) I was depressed tonight cause AF came so I'm hitting Panera tomorrow, thats my weakness. Once again, Good Luck  

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  • missbeckreepmissbeckreep member
    so there is someone out there just like me :-).  I weigh 94lbs and do eat but people do judge quickly :-(. How long have you been trying? What are your diagnosis. We went to a clinic of a year and just switched jan 3--so im back at stage one, at the first clinic all tests were excellent i was making eggs and what not , did 3 IUI's on clomid, and it was unexplained infertlity, but i was ready for a second opinion, so here i am. The HSG sucked real bad :0(, im still in pain.
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  • ginogomermisserginogomermisser member

    Sorry, been sulking all day because of AF and finally had to wise up and get to work. I am 36 and been dealing with IF for 16 cycles. After mostly all testing(scheduled for Lap on Monday), I still have explained IF. My doctor stated that same thing, my ovarian reserve is fine, producing good eggs and AF is right on time. Hopefully I will be getting more answers on Monday after Lap. After lap, I will be doing first cycle of IUI with Clomid. This totally sucks being thin and HATE judgemental people. When I read your post, I was irrate because why can people be angry with those that judge overweight people and not thin people. If I hear one more person say "just gain weight, how are u gonna carry a child being so small, or how are you going to deliver?" Im gonna puke. Actually my doctor said being small is great for delivery naturally and typically have no complications. I wish you the best of luck. PM me if you need help, any questions or just wanna chat. :)     

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    By the way, you live up in Indiana County right?? Went to IUP. Go Steelers!!!!!!! heehee  
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