if one more person tells me they are pregnant

Re: if one more person tells me they are pregnant

• fmj912

  January 2011

  agreed.  best friend also found it necessary to tell me they are starting to try... i'm happy for her but secretly scared they will be successful right away.  I am in day three of my m/c- not the best time to discuss this. oh, and i have a baby shower to attend on sunday.  i feel like a terrible person that i am feeling so sad/jealous/miserable about everyone else's happiness.  hope the bitterness passes soon.

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• madiegirl83

  January 2011

  Tell me about it!!  Every time I get on facebook there is a new u/s picture from someone, or a new birth announcement, or a new "I'm pregnant" announcement.  Let alone that fact that I went to lunch last week with ladies from my church and 3 out of the 5 are pregnant.  One of them just announced and her EDD is like 3 days before what mine should be... so now for the next 7 months I have to go to church every sunday and see her going through all the things I should be going through!  UGH!!  Ok... that's my vent for the moment... I hope we can all get past this bitterness at some point soon.....

  " BFP #1 12/26/06 DS born 08/08/07 BFP #2 12/16/10 EDD 08/23/11 Missed M/C ~7weeks D&C 02/04/11 BFP #3 3/11/11 4/1/10 heard HB 149!!! EDD is 11/17/11

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• LDW80

  January 2011

  I know.  Announcements are popping up EVERYWHERE.  It is like a constant slap in the face.  I hate that we all have to keep facing this.  I want to be happy for people but it is so hard to be right now.

  
  DD#1 9-4-04 *** DD#2 10-15-07
  BFP#3 10-25-10 *EDD 7/1/11 * missed m/c @ 13w3d
  BFP#4 7-30-11 *EDD 4/8/12 ~ DD#3 born 4/4/12
  

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• JThomas221

  January 2011

  I feel the same way. I see pregnant women everywhere, and 3 women at my work and 1 guy's girlfriend are all either about to have babies, or just had one. I'm trying so hard to be happy for them all but it's hard when I know that should be me in six months.

  
  
  
  
  
  
  BFP 11/23/10 MMC @ 7w3d Discovered @ 10w2d D&C 1/12/11
  
  BFP 7/6/11 Our Lucky Charm born 3/5/12

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• MegMeg0913 member

  January 2011

  It is so stressful.  These women that have never had to deal with this kinds of loss does not understand how hurtful it is to talk about their pregnancy.  I have noticed that if someone does notice it is bothering you they either don't care or just think it is absurd that you can't be happy for them and listen.  

  I can't even stand to see all the women at the store who have new babies or are pregnant.  It is so upsetting.  

   

   

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• MrsRuss member

  January 2011

  OH i totally agree!

  every time i open facebook someone has posted their US picture or announced that their happy little baby is now XX weeks along!  UGH!

  i truly am happy for my friends, but at the same time i just wish everyone would be quiet about it already.  not like people like us need one more stab in the heart....  and if you haven't been through a MS you have no idea how much it hurts to see pregnant women walking around.

  anyone ready for a good cry now?  

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