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I think so. But I don't know.

Lately the only thing that matters to me is DD. DH makes me angry and sad and upset. I love him but it doesn't seem to matter. I just can't stand being around him.

I hate my job. I am actively trying to find a new one. But the prospect of being away from DD for more than the 2 days a week that I'm working now brings me to tears. We need the money so I continue to job hunt even though it makes me unhappy.

I never want to leave the house. I don't want to hang out with anyone besides DD. I feel like I'm going crazy because I never leave the house but it doesn't matter. I'd rather stay home with DD than go see people and have to share her since she's the only thing that matters to me right now.

DH tries to help. But it's not enough. I feel like a single parent most of the time. And sometimes I think it would be easier if DH wasn't around because then I would know I would have to do it by myself instead of hoping he will help and being disappointed and angry when it doesn't happen.

This is really just the tip of the iceberg. I just need some advice.

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  • totallyshockedtotallyshocked member
    I feel you. Im a stay at home mom and when SO is around he likes to tell me what to do or that Im doing something wrong....."Im here 24/7 and shes 100% okay, obviously Im doing something right". Im on meds for PPD and sometimes I feel unattached and others I wont put her down. So I understand the emotional roller coaster. have u seen your doc? taking anything?
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  • jkelly41jkelly41 member

    I think so too- and everything you're feeling is totally normal.  I went through very similar feelings towards my DH.  I called my OB and after talking over my options, I decided to go on meds.  It was the best decision ever! 

    Normally, I would have preferred talking with someone over meds, but I have a toddler too and no free time (DH works nights) so I needed a quicker fix.  It was amazing how I felt after a week on z.oloft.  It also helped to have a heart to heart with DH about everything.  He was much more understanding, supportive, and helpful once he really knew what I was thinking/feeling.

    My advice-call your OB and have a talk with DH.  Also- don't wait for him to do things- you'll have to tell him what to do.  My DH said that was much easier on him because he knew I know our babies best since I spend so much time with them.

    Hang in there!!

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