How are you getting through these next few weeks? I still have 6 weeks to go before maternity leave and don;t know if i can make it! Mentally and physcially I have already shut down. I feel like I am falling behind and just don't have anything to pick me up. Teaching is becoming so exhausting and I feel so bad for my little ones...
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I have a while before maternity leave, but I know how you feel. Over Christmas break (which was essentially extended a week due to snow days), I got to the point of not looking forward to going back. Within the past few days though, as I have started truly prepping for going back tomorrow, I have become excited about the new semester. I'm going to try and do my best, keeping in mind that I will have some wonderful time off with my little one starting in about 12 weeks. So, I guess mentally I am fine. Physically, however....I'm honestly a little worried about being back on my feet all day! Between growing over the past month and all the relaxing I've been doing, I'm anxious to see how my body will react to all the activity.
Btw, I teach 9th and 10th graders.
Knowing that I'm not returning this year makes me feel a lot better about getting thru the next 7 weeks (I'm theoretically working till 3 days after my due date... we shall see!) Also, knowing how much I have left to do before I go makes it an impossibility to "shut down"... I've got to get everything planned and organized for my sub, plus have to get through parent/teacher conferences and report cards... eeek! No rest for the pregnant and weary...
Hang in there... the 6 weeks will fly by I'm sure!!
I met with my sub like 3 times now (she's even coming in tomorrow) and I feel very confident my classes are in good hands. Thankfully, my maternity leave falls very close to when I had DS so I just altered those plans for the most part and I teach a semester course so I just have her repeat what I did in the fall.
As for being done, I told my supervisor this will probably be my final 4 days, but I really want to be done! Our semester just ended which is perfect timing to exit and transition in the new sub. I'm just not that into it right now, and that is not fair to the students. I thought LO would've shown up by now like DS did.
I'll be returning in April and that feels like it is right around the corner!
I feel you completely---my exhaustion and hormones make me feel like a cranky teacher to my little ones (kdg). I've been trying to sit more but I feel guilty watching them all work and not circulating to help them---it's such a crucial time of the year!!! One thing that has helped me with my countdown (seven weeks as well---working *knock on wood* until two days before my DD) is the nesting in my classroom. In between getting things ready for my sub (binders, organizing stations and theme files etc) and organizing my cabinets so I won't be embarrassed for someone else to open them!, it's been helping the time pass. I made a GIANT list of what I want to accomplish in my room before I go and that has helped me focus more. Well...that and the BH I've been having a lot--those helped me realize to focus and slow down too!
BUT---every week, I get more and more tired and ready to be at home. My goal this week is to start training some of my kids with some new "jobs" so that they can take on more responsibility for when I'm gone--less for me to worry about when the sub is there.
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I'm not a teacher, but I work in the school system as a physical therapist and the fact that I only have 6 weeks until 3 months off is very motivating! (plus we have a week off in february, so really 5 weeks until vacation!) I hope to get to enjoy february break before bringing baby into the world!
I may never get to meet who comes to fill in for me, so I have to make sure my plans and paperwork are in order and easy to walk into. That part stresses me out a little. I have 3-4 IEPs to get done in these next few weeks, so I'm hoping being busy will make the time pass quickly!
God help you. Middle school, especially 8th grade, is the worst possible age group anyone could work with. My husband teaches 8th grade and I'm not sure how he does it. I worked at a middle school last year and this year I have been subbing at a middle school. Last year I was perfectly fine and nothing really bothered me that bad...I could let the attitudes slide, etc. This year I worked with all the same kids, except I have been subbing because our district decided to let go of a billion people this year, and I was perfectly fine and and everything was going smoothly until last week. I became so irritable and annoyed by all the attitudes, drama, and brat like behaviors that I thought I may just combust. There are actual students that could be named pitocin and sent to the hospital to serve as pregnancy inducers because they can cause that much stress. Friday was my last day of subbing and today feels like a wonderful day.
I already told my principal that I can't be on my feet past 1pm anymore. I teach 2nd grade and am so exhausted! When I was pregnant with DD, I had her in Sept. So I wasn't in the third tri during the school year. This time is dreadful!
I already wrote my lesson plans up until my leave minue two weeks for testing weeks. So, I'm kinda set with that. I have my aid doing all my copying now too. We have a snow day today, so I am going to start writing my plans for during my leave (which I don't have to do, but I feel better knowing that the class is still in my control).
I totally agree with you though! It's exhausting!!!
I agree with everyone else...it is so exhuasting lately! I was home yesterday (& now again today) with the stomach flu...yay me.
I teach choir for grades 5-12 & they just recently hired my long-term sub; so I'm hoping he can come in and spend the day (or two) with me before I go into labor; which as of my last appt last week could really be anyday.
I agree with some of the pps though; I am really nervous that every day I leave I will not be back for 6 weeks; so I'm trying to get everything organized so each day I leave I can have everything ready "just in case."