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26 hours til apt #3, week 12...NERVES & rant

UCONNHuskiesUCONNHuskies member
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So why is it the first week and a half after the apt I'm good, adn then the second week and half before the next apt I freak out and think of all the bad things that could have happened, even if there's NO REASON????  Tomorrow is our "big apt", but isn't every apt big when you have suffered a loss?  My stomach has been turning for the past 3 days and today's snow day is great, but now I'm pretty stuck at home, alone, to think of nothing but this apt.  URGHHHHH!  Good thing is it's first thing in the morning tomorrow, so it's just today I have leff to deal with. 

What do others do to keep busy?  Also, any positive thoughts would be much appreciated.

Thanks

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Re: 26 hours til apt #3, week 12...NERVES & rant

  • NFG0603NFG0603

    You'll make it!! I am right there with you. Heard the hb on the doppler at my 10 week appointment last week and that should have been all I needed right? NOT I am in panic mode right now waiting for our 12 week NT scan next week.

    My symptoms are almost non-existent and I am freaking out!  I wish I had some great advice for you other than you have made it this far and statistics are on your side!

    Sending you lots of T&'P's that this is your take home baby!!

    Hope it all goes well!

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  • UCONNHuskiesUCONNHuskies member
    thanks and same to you.  I keep thinking when I get to 2nd tri I'll be better about this....one can only hope, right?  My symptoms come and go, if that helps your nerves at all. fingers crossed for us both!
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  • vflipovflipo member
    Good luck tomorrow! If I'm home the day before an appointment I try to take lots of naps. Sleeping seems to help the time go by quickly. I have a hard time focusing on anything else (which is tough when I have to work before an appointment).
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    *big hugs* Lots of PT your way.
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  • ililheatheriililheatheri member

    I sleep! hah, I realized when I'm waiting for test results or appointments, I just nap... a whole lot, and watch crappy TV and movies and before you know it, you have completely wasted the day. ;-)

    Just breathe! And stay positive!

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  • UCONNHuskiesUCONNHuskies member
    I'm glad to know I'm not alone with the crazy talk :)  you ladies are really helping me today!  I really appreciate it.
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  • Jamers822Jamers822 member
    :::hugs::: sending lots of T & P's your way for your appointment. I know exactly how you feel. I am hoping that 2nd tri gets better as well!! I am still feeling okay from seeing my baby wiggle around and have a strong heart beat last week but as it gets further away I start to feel the same way you are describing.
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