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age 35 & first pregnancy

nreed35nreed35
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I will be 36 in May.  This is my first pregnancy and I couldn't be happier!  I didn't think this day was ever going to come for me.  I am 6wks and have started reading What to Expect When You're Expecting and am now NERVOUS....all the statistics on miscarriages has freaked me out.  I seem to be able to feel every little thing in my pelvic area.  Its kinda like pressure and Im beginning to drive myself crazy! lol  My husband is constantly reassuring me everything is fine, but until I see a doctor in a few weeks, I plan to take a test twice a week...Is that crazy?   

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Re: age 35 & first pregnancy

  • mollybloommollybloom member

    Welcome and congrats!

    I think it's a little crazy but in kind of a fun way. Statistics can really screw with your mind. I am 33 and pregnant for the 1st time. I, too, worry about stats. But when you think about it, there is really nothing that you can do either way, so worrying about is fruitless. But if it reassures you, it can't hurt you.

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  • KMorley3KMorley3 member

    yes, try not to worry (easier said than done) anything that is going to happen is going to happen out of your control, roll with it day by day and be greatful you have today.

    Stress is only worse for you so try to relax, I am sure you are fine, a coworker of mine just had her first at 42 so I think you have a good shot !!

     Also, I was not a fan of what to expect when your expecting I found myself worrying about things from that book that never happened. Try "your pregnancy week by week" I liked that one allot !!

     

    H&H 9 months to you !Smile

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  • BwayDaniBwayDani
    Congrats! I'm also 35 pregnant with my first, turning 36 in June :) It's normal to be nervous!!  I personally started to feel much better once the nausea and breast tenderness set in, (around 5 1/2 weeks)  because I knew that was a good sign.  Don't bother taking pregnancy tests to reassure yourself, because they will stay positive even during and after a miscarriage. It's a waste of money. Anyway, congrats on your pregnancy, welcome to the club and hang in there!  It's only a couple of weeks- try to stay distracted :)
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  • reneebobreneebob
    I'm 35 with my first pregnancy also.  I totally relate to the excitement and nerves you are feeling.  The first advice I was given from my brother in law was burn the book "what to expect when you're expecting"  and I can't be happier that I took his advice.  He told me his wife and him went crazy from that book. They ended up having a very healthy baby but they worried the entire time from that book.  Stress is the worst thing for us. Since it's taken so long for us to finally have a kid I'm making sure I'm enjoying every day of this pregnancy. The only things I can control is my attitude about it and I'm determined to remain optimistic and positive no matter what.   I say toss the book and if you are worried about any symptoms just ask others on this site.  Otherwise congratulations and enjoy!!!!! 
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  • mama_duckmama_duck

    Hi there!  First off CONGRATS!!!  I am 34 right now and will be 35 next Saturday.  I was informed that I am also in a high risk group.  This will be #2 for me so I think I can offer you some advice.

    • STOP READING PREGGO BOOKS IF THEY ARE FREAKING YOU OUT!
    • You are going to feel more in you pelvic area because you have a baby in there and this is your 1st.  I don't really feel that much with #2 on the way! But with the 1st one I remember them being pretty intense.
    • Unless you are severely cramping and bleeding, it is probably RLP (Round ligament pain).  If in doubt call your doc.
    • ENJOY IT!!!  There is no use in being scared all the time! 
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