Our baby boy will be baptized in our church (Catholic) sometime this spring. For those of you baptizing, when do you think you will do it? Also, if you are having a boy, do you have any idea what you'll dress him in? I've looked around online and i'm not sure i want to go with one of the "gowns" even though many boys wear them. I'd love to hear what others are doing.
Re: For those of you baptizing
we baptized ds when he was almost three months old. I honestly can't imagine doing it any sooner just because of the sleep deprivation and trying to plan a gathering at our home after, etc. I did not use a gown, but found a cute onesie type outfit from jc penney (NOT one of the baby tuxedos!) with a hat and shoes.
https://www3.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6.aspx?GrpTyp=PRD&ItemID=163275a&Ntt=baptism&Ne=840+4+877+878+5+961+6+29+3+598+11+15+12+506+10+23+585+596+1031+8+18+904+903+969+949+833&hdnOnGo=true&submit search.y=11&SearchString=baptism&submit search.x=13&N=4294959029&Nao=0&SO=0&PSO=0&CmCatId=searchresults
We had Drew baptized when he was 3 months old. I'm guessing this LO we'll do something similar (due mid-April, baptized in July-Aug ish?)
I would have been fine just putting Drew in regular church clothes but both my mom and MIL were surprised by this and said "you don't want him in white?" I didn't really care either way and decided to go ahead and do the all white outfit thing. We found a white two piece outfit (pants and a sweater) that was cute and not girly.
Of course it was a freakishly hot November day (75 degrees!) and Drew was roasting in his sweater. We ended up taking it off and he was just in a white onesie with pants :-)
DS was almost 8 months old before we baptised him. I was looking for a gown, but they were all very girly. I ended up with a suit from Elder Beerman. I highly recommend looking at Sears and JCP for outfits.
This DD is due 3/15, but we probably won't baptize until June. I don't think I can get myself together in April. May already has 1 Confirmation and 2 First Communions. So, I'm thinking June.
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DS was born March 16th and we baptized him May 17th. He wore a little white suit. I think we got it from JC Penny. Here's a pic
DD is due March 14th, and we plan to baptize her in May as well.
We'll probably do it in May (girl is due in early April).
Ds wore the same gown I wore (and my brothers), my mom (and my aunt and uncle) and my grandma. DD will wear the same thing.
We did it at 12 weeks with DD. Hopefully earlier with this one, but we have grandparents travel to deal with.
No matter the gender, baby will wear the family baptismal gown. It's almost 100 years old and every baby on my mom's side of the family since her mom has been baptized in it, which is another reason for doing it earlier - DD ripped it a little because she was moving her hands around alot. I think it was made from her grandmother's wedding dress.
Natalie is due some time in March. We're going to have her Christened in May.
Natalie's godmother is a (very talented) seamstress, who is taking my wedding gown and making a Christening gown out of it. If it had been a boy, she'd have done the same but made one of the little shorts suits which I think are really stinking cute!
We are having our son baptized this coming weekend (the 23rd). He is just over 2 months old.
We are having him wear a simple gown that belongs to some good friends (their son wore it). Underneath I had a simple white Ralph Lauren one-piece (long sleeves, long pants) monogrammed. Very simple and classic.
I like the little rompers too (Strasburg Children has cute ones) but they didn't have anything online in my son's size. I just didn't have time to go to the store (2 hours away).
For my daughter, we had her baptized at 3 months. Her gown was created out of my wedding dress and is VERY special. If we decide we are done having kids I am going to have it shadow-boxed with a picture of her in the gown and me in my gown
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We'll probably do it around 3 months. Sears has a lot of Christening outfits:
https://www.sears.com/shc/s/search_10153_12605?keyword=baptism&vName=Baby
And, I found some at Macy's too:
https://www1.macys.com/search/index.ognc?SearchTarget=*&Keyword=christening
DS was born in June - we originally planned to baptize him in January (7mos old) because we chose to baptize him on my dad's b-day (for whom DS is named). Unfortuntely we got snowed out so we had it in April. He wore this: https://www.strasburgchildren.com/detail.asp?pfid=SBC00780
DD will be born 2/16 and I'm guessing we'll baptize her some time over the summer. I actually really liked that DS was a little older and a little more predictable. He did great and so I'm thinking that we'll get our schedule down first and then figure out a day to baptize DD. Also, I will need to work it around family schedules so that I can be sure grandparents will be in attendance.
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We baptize within a week or two of the birth. Earlier in the hospital if there are any complications or health problems.
If this one is a boy, he will wear a gown. My mother sews and she has made one that is a little shorter and not as frilly as my DD's baptismal gown. I feel okay with a gown for a boy since he'll still be so young. If he was more than a couple months old, I'd probably do a little suit.
We baptised DS at 3 weeks old in a gown that MIL made. We will use the same gown for this LO, but I am not sure when we will do it because we are not completely happy with the church we are at right now and we may be moving shortly anyway.
Here is the best photo that I can find of his gown
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EDD is March 17th. It will probably be around May.
My church is very tradtional when it comes to things like this so he will be wearing the gown.
We were just discussing this yesterday. We are going to talk to our pastors to find out what time frame is 'standard'. I would assume that we will do it somewhere around 3 months. I would love to do it when she is only a few weeks old because my Mom will be visiting from Canada, but I can not imagine that being a good idea.
Baby will wear my husband's family Christening gown. All boys and girls for a couple of generations (on his Mom's side) have worn it.
I'll be the Lone Ranger here. I'm Lutheran, and typically we baptize as soon as possible, within the first few weeks. Personally, my husband and I, with our history of loss, are choosing to baptize in the hospital the first evening I'm able to present myself half decently from bed after a c/s.
We lost our twins at 18 weeks to incompetent cervix and they each lived a few minutes. They were born alive and were baptized. NOTHING gives us more comfort than knowing that. It sounds overly dramatic, I know, but we just aren't taking any risks with this baby. Again, to us, it's not about the pomp and circumstance and history and tradition, but about the act of Grace that God outpours to us as our gift from Him. I couldn't care less what he wears, but I did find a cute white cross Onesie that I will most likely dress him in at the hospital.
Just offering a different perspective. God Bless!
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My baby is due Feb. 4th and we will probably have him baptized in April. He is named after my grandpa (who will be coming out to visit him around then) so we will time the baptism to when my grandparents are in town.
I hadn't thought too much about what he would wear... but am definitely thinking about it now, thanks for bringing it up!