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The thing I hate about my job..

I work banquets at a restaurant on the weekends and today we had one, it was a baby shower, usually I am ok about it, but today for some reason it got me kind of upset, out of about 40 guests at the banquet, 6 of them were pregnant!! I know it will be my day someday, but I am sick of working these baby showers...ahhhh!! Tongue Tied

 

 

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  • It can be hard seeing pregnant ladies all the time. I work at a daycare and though I absolutely love my job its can be hard sometimes.
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  • Yikes!  I don't know how either one of you do it.  That's been one of the hardest things for me....
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  • ugh! there are alot of bumps around my job lately too. It's hard. Someone told me "don't drink the water!". i wanted to strangle her.

    hang in there!

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  • the thing I hate about my job.  I work at Target.  Aside from seeing a million little kids, babies and pregnant women...I have to stock the diapers, baby food, etc and can't help read labels and think about "someday" buying these at the store and no longer working there (I plan on being SAHM).

    TTC since July 2009. Dx MFI & LPD. 
    IUI#1&2&3 (2011 & 2012) BFN
    IUI#4 1/23/13 on 75iu x9 Follistim = BFP then chem preg m/c (Feb 2013)
    IUI#5 BFN (April 2013)
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  • My job sucks b/c I have to stand on my feet all day long. My legs and feet are a mess by the end of every day and it takes the whole weekend for them to quit throbbing and then its back to work. :(

     Anyway all the ladies up front are pg and the pharmacist I work with has 6 kids and is always talking about how hectic her life is b/c of it...::rolls eyes::

    It def. can be hard...I'm sorry you had a rough day. Hopefully you won't have any baby showers to cater to for a while.

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    **TTC since 04/09, C/P 02/02/10; 4 weeks, 3 days**
    **Dx: Anovulation, Hypothryroidism, Mild Endo, Pituitary Adenoma (prolactin issues), PAI-1, MFI **

    **7/10: Clomid + TI= BFN**
    **3/2/11: 1st RE appointment**
    **DH= Morph= 2%, Motility= 30%**
    **HSG= All clear!!**
    **3/11: Femara + Pregnyl + TI= BFN**
    **5/17/11: Laparoscopy / hysteroscopy = mild endo**
    **7/11: Novarel + IUI #1= BFN (7mil, 75% motility, 2% morph)**
    **8/11: Femara + Novarel + IUI #2= BFN (11mil, 35% motility, 1% morph)**
    **11/11: Femara + Novarel + IUI #3= BFN (9mil, 2% morph)**
    **Jan 2012: Follistim (75ius) + IUI #4= CANCELLED due to cyst -put on bcp**
    **Feb 2012: Follistim (75ius) + Novarel + IUI #4.2= BFFN (2.5mil, 13% motility, 1% morph)**
    **Mar 2012: Follistim (100ius) + IUI #5= CANCELLED due to 35mm & 14mm cysts**
    **On med break indefinitely...IF Sucks!**

    **Jan 2013: Follistim (100ius) + IUI #5.2= CANCELLED due to high prolactin level, MRI scheduled, pituitary adenoma found, put on Dostinex**
    **Mar 2013: Follistim (100ius) + IUI #5.3= CANCELLED due to uterine polyp, surgery scheduled for polypectomy and D&C**
    **03/22/13: Hysteroscopy, polypectomy and D&C**
    **May 2013: Finally got to start a cycle!!! Follistim (100ius) + IUI #5.4 = BFFN (6mil, 74% motility, 2% morph)** 

    **Jun 2013: Decide to start IVF**
    IVF w/ICSI #1 (Long Lupron Protocol)
    06/26/13: Start BCPs
    07/02/13: HSG #2= all clear
    07/15/13: Start Lupron 10 ius
    07/25/13: Suppression check
    07/28/13: Start stims (225IUs Follistim + 75IUs Menopur) drop to 5 IUs Lupron
    08/01/13: Monitoring: 12 follicles all about 10mm, E2- 313
    08/04/13: Monitoring: 18 follicles (15mm, 13mm, a few 11mm, rest 10mm or below) E2- 1,505
    Start Augmentin- antibiotic prep
    08/06/13: Monitoring: 13 follicles (18mm, 17mm, rest b/w 15mm-16mm!) Ready to trigger!! E2- 2,248
    08/08/13: ER-- 14R, 13M, 10F 
    08/11/13: One fertilized late, we now have 11 embryos!
    08/13/13: 5dt-- 2 blasts (Sheldon and Penny) 3AA and 3BB, none to freeze
    8/23/13: BFFN... Sheldon and Penny didn't stick**

    **8/29/13: Follow up... bad fragmentation issues. Changing protocol to Antagonist for round #2 coming soon! Also started on 81mg Aspirin after getting blood panel done and found out I have PAI-1**

    **Oct 2013: After large cysts, finally starting IVF #2**
    IVF w/ICSI #2 (Antagonist Protocol)
    BCPs started back in Sept due to cysts
    10/27/13: Start stims (225 IUs Gonal-F + 75 IUs Menopur)
    11/03/13 - 11/05/13: Add Ganirelix to the mix
    11/06/13: 3 follicles at 18mm-- Ready to trigger!
    11/08/13: ER-- 17R, 13M, 8F
    11/13/13: 5dt-- 2 blasts (Luke and Leia) 5AB and 4AB, 1 frostie
    11/20/13- 11/23/13: light positives on FRERs and Wondofos
    11/22/13: BFN per RE office (under HCG of 10)
    11/27/13: CP ::sigh::

    *12/03/13: Follow up...great response and quality this time, was given 50% chance of it working, just didn't stick. Great plan for 2014! 

    **Jan 2014: Last IVF of our SRP**
    IVF w/ICSI, freeze all, then FET
    12/27/13: Start BCPs
    01/19/14: Stims (375 IUs Gonal-F + 75 IUs Menopur)

    Congratulations Cutebride!! --TWINS!! Congratulations, Luvie, on your sweet boy! Congrats, Jess! So happy for you ladies! <3<3  
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  • Oh sweetie!  I am so sorry!  It is an extrememly frustrating thing to go through :(  A handful of my friends all had babies last year and everytime I get together with them they end up telling me of another friend who just got KU, blah blah blah.  I want to be happy for them that most of them didn't have to go through what we do.  But it is hard.  My saving grace is this: 2 years ago a friend ended up on clomid for about 6 months and now has twins, last year a friend who had been trying for 2 years finally got KU as well as another friend who had IF issues and took metformin for 4 months and delivered a little girl in June.  I'm not saying this to be one of "those" story tellers, I am just saying this because it gives me hope.  That even when there are things on a daily basis that can negatively remind us of what we are going through, there are positive outcomes happening everyday for those of us with IF issues. 
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  • I am so sorry!  That would really bum me out too.
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    11/10 - 100mg Clomid + trigger + IUI + Estradiol + Progesterone = BFN
    12/10 - Unmedicated cycle due to RE not doing treatments in December = BFN
    1/11 - 100mg Clomid + trigger + IUI + Estradiol + Progesterone = BFN
    2/11 - Same sh!t, different month = IUI cancelled due to no response = BFN
    IVF #1 - Start stims (Follistim) 5/10, add in Ganirelix 5/14
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    Beta 6/3 - 15.8; Beta 6/7 - 21.8; Beta 6/10 - 7 :(
    FET - Transferred 1 AA blast 7/11. Beta 7/20 - 311! Beta 7/22 - 784!! First u/s 8/10
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  • Ugh, I'm so sorry. It's hard when it happens at work. My coworkers are always teasing me about getting pregnant, and asking if I'll go out for sushi, wine, or if I want some unpasturized cheese. It's become a joke but sometimes it really stings.
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  • I've had several people at work get pregnant and have babies in the time that I've been TTC. Now some of them are already on another round. Its rough!
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