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god forbid that you say something!

bamfhairstylistbamfhairstylist
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wrote a new post on TTC and i mean i thought this website is to learn stuff and to help people? but everyone acted all mad when i wrote a post and was like you need to learn your body and im guessing your a newbie at this blah blah blah i mean dang IM SO SORRY FOR WRITING A POST

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Re: god forbid that you say something!

  • Dr.LorettaDr.Loretta member

    Well, I'm guessing you're new and haven't gotten into charting, etc. I don't see why this is such a big deal that you were identified as new and still learning.

    ETA: Did you lurk before you posted?

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  • bamfhairstylistbamfhairstylist

    Yes ma'am I did but I was like what the heck, didnt expect to get attack tho lol I thought I new a little bit but evidently not enough but yeah I didnt think it was a big deal since it was for helping one another evidently i really offended them by not reading a newbie post and I wasnt "allowed" to post anything on the "trying to get pregnant" board since I'm a newbie

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  • bamfhairstylistbamfhairstylist
    thanks a lottt!
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  • Dr.LorettaDr.Loretta member

    It's the TTGP board. It requires a lot of lurking, and an introduction. And because the search function is non-existent, it requires you to scan through a couple of pages of posts to see if your question has been asked.

    If you don't like the welcome, you don't have to go back.

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  • jwls84jwls84 member
    TTGP can be a tough board. But it can also be a great support! Lurk and come back! (If you want to that is)
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  • orexismmiiorexismmii member
    ok, this might be a silly question, but why is lurking important?
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  • CherylleannCherylleann
    You learn people's personalities and what sets them off.  If you start on the good side, you stay there.  Same goes for bad side.  Oh, and BOTB and TTGP hate each other.  Figure out where your personality fits.  I thought I found mine, was misinturpreted multiple times, and now am met with negativity on almost any post on BOTB.  I don't see how TTGP is more tough!
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  • amyc216amyc216 member
    I'm new too.  I've been reading through posts for a few weeks and see a lot of mean responses.  I started typing a question this afternoon and chickened out about it.  Scared I'd get a "duh!" response!

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  • CJS72410CJS72410
    I had the same EXACT problem! I've only been trying for 6 months and this month I'm 2 1/2 weeks late (don't mind the tickers they are thrown off from this) and I post a question and all I get is "you don't take temps?" "you don't do opk's?" "you don't know your body!!" I thought this was supposed to be a place for help! Many people on the newbie boards are very helpful (such as the people on this page) I'm thankful for them :)
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