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My Husband just outted me..

AutumnLeavesFall AutumnLeavesFall
in September 2011 Moms

WTF of please don't tell anyone did he not understand.

I know he's excited, but with my history of loss I'd like to be alittle further along than tell everyone.

He outted me last night at a bar with his bestfriend. He is now outting me to his mom, that I told him after I heard him tell her.. to tell her not to say anything, and if she can't keep her mouth shut, I just want to keep it off facebook for now because I have only told my mom who knew I was going thru fertility treatments and came over to help me do injections. So she deserved to know after all the help she gave me.

I know there is never a "safe" time for pregnancy.. but I don't want to have to deliver bad news again.

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Re: My Husband just outted me..

  • lreginaw87lreginaw87 member
    I would set your settings on facebook to nobody can write on your wall. I did that because a friend wrote on my wall that she was excited I was having a baby! I got it soon enough to delete it and reset my settings. I don't want anyone that has any connections with my job to know. I need to tell my job myself because they aren't to pleased when their employees become prego, and I don't want them to hear form someone else and then do something with my position. I found this to work and I'm just sending e-mails to people who want to talk about it.
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  • shanna82shanna82 member
    OMG, your DH and my dad could be BFFs.  My dad outed me to half of his side of the family yesterday.  It was awesome.
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  • carolinasarahcarolinasarah
    imageAutumnLeavesFall:

    I know there is never a "safe" time for pregnancy.. but I don't want to have to deliver bad news again.

    This exactly. I have no idea when I'm going to feel "comfortable" telling. I've joked that I'm not saying anything on facebook until I'm past 30 wks... but I'm not totally joking. It just sucks always having fear tinging every little ounce of excitement...

    Sorry about your DH's lack of, um, discretion :)

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