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Can I join? Introduction

lavrillavril member
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Hi ladies.  I wanted to say hello and share my story. 

This was my first pregnancy, and my husband and I (both 29) were super excited.  All was going well, saw the heartbeat of 174 at 8w3d.  Fast forward 3.5 weeks... The day after Christmas I had a tiny bit of spotting, but nothing to be too alarmed about.  Just to be safe, we went in the following day for a checkup.  I was one day shy of 12 weeks.  We unfortunately found out in the u/s that the baby had stopped growing at 9 weeks and no longer had a heartbeat.  They said it was a missed m/c.  We scheduled a D&C two days later.  The day between finding out and my D&C, I miscarried naturally. 

My doctor advised us to wait 2 cycles before trying again (hopefully that means March).  It's only been 2 weeks, so we're not quite ready to TTC yet.  I've been lurking over here a bit, so I figured I should introduce myself. 

 

PGAL/PAL welcome
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Trying to start our family since 2010
BFP #1 11.4.10, EDD 7.12.11, HB 12/9/10, MMC 12/27/10; 11w6d
BFP #2 9.12.12, EDD 5.24.13, Baby Boy Born 5.15.13!!
My Ovulation Chart
3 Clomid (100mg) cycles + TI + Trigger = BFN's, Femara + Trigger + IUI#1 = BFN
Femara + Trigger + IUI#2 = BFP!
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will." ~Gandhi
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  • Rawr08Rawr08
    I am so sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.
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  • emeraudecephiroemeraudecephiro member

    I'm sorry for your loss, welcome to the board.

    We have a blog for TTCAL that is in my siggy, be sure to read the for newbies section and the rest of it :) 

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  • lavrillavril member
    imageemeraudecephiro:

    I'm sorry for your loss, welcome to the board.

    We have a blog for TTCAL that is in my siggy, be sure to read the for newbies section and the rest of it :) 

    Will do!  Thanks :)

    PGAL/PAL welcome
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    Trying to start our family since 2010
    BFP #1 11.4.10, EDD 7.12.11, HB 12/9/10, MMC 12/27/10; 11w6d
    BFP #2 9.12.12, EDD 5.24.13, Baby Boy Born 5.15.13!!
    My Ovulation Chart
    3 Clomid (100mg) cycles + TI + Trigger = BFN's, Femara + Trigger + IUI#1 = BFN
    Femara + Trigger + IUI#2 = BFP!
    "Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will." ~Gandhi
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  • hopefulelisehopefulelise
    So sorry for your loss, but welcome to the board.
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  • julesjbjulesjb member
    Im so sorry for your loss, I had a very similar experience. I hope you find lots of support here andI look forward to getting to know you!
    BFP #1 6/18/10 Saw HB 7/15/10 Missed M/C 8/17/10 @ 12 weeks 2 days- 2 D&C's( 8/20 and 8/26) BFP#2 11/21/10 Nonviable at 5wks, possible ectopic. Methotrexate 12/3/10&12/9/10 BFP#3 3/10/11 Beta@12dpo 39 Beta@14dpo 160! 21 DPO 2439 HB at 7wks 127 EDD 11/17/11
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  • PachitaPachita member

    I'm so sorry for you loss.  I think I've seen you from TTGP, is that right?

    Welcome to the board.   I also had a MMC. 

    BFP#1: 7/14/10.  EDD: 3/19/11--MMC-- D&C 9/2/10.
    BFP#2: 12:22/10.EDD: 8/30/11 C/P 12/25/10
    BFP#3: 10/26/11 EDD: 7/2/12-- Daniel born 7/14/12. My rainbow baby!                                                                                                                                           BFP #4:  2.22/15 EDD: 11/4/15 C/P 2/28/15                                                                                                                                                                                      BFP #5:  4/5/15   EDD 12/11/15 (Ectopic Pregnancy)

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  • mandy6418mandy6418
    I am so sorry for your loss. :::HUGS::: Welcome.
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  • lavrillavril member

    Thanks everyone!  I really appreciate the kind words and warm welcome.

    Pachita - I was occasionally on the trying to get pregnant board.  Maybe you saw me there? 

    PGAL/PAL welcome
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    Trying to start our family since 2010
    BFP #1 11.4.10, EDD 7.12.11, HB 12/9/10, MMC 12/27/10; 11w6d
    BFP #2 9.12.12, EDD 5.24.13, Baby Boy Born 5.15.13!!
    My Ovulation Chart
    3 Clomid (100mg) cycles + TI + Trigger = BFN's, Femara + Trigger + IUI#1 = BFN
    Femara + Trigger + IUI#2 = BFP!
    "Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will." ~Gandhi
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  • PachitaPachita member
    imagelavril:

    Thanks everyone!  I really appreciate the kind words and warm welcome.

    Pachita - I was occasionally on the trying to get pregnant board.  Maybe you saw me there? 

    Maybe, your SN sounds familar bc it reminded me of avril leving (that canadian singer--I know I spelled it wrong!)

    BFP#1: 7/14/10.  EDD: 3/19/11--MMC-- D&C 9/2/10.
    BFP#2: 12:22/10.EDD: 8/30/11 C/P 12/25/10
    BFP#3: 10/26/11 EDD: 7/2/12-- Daniel born 7/14/12. My rainbow baby!                                                                                                                                           BFP #4:  2.22/15 EDD: 11/4/15 C/P 2/28/15                                                                                                                                                                                      BFP #5:  4/5/15   EDD 12/11/15 (Ectopic Pregnancy)

    BFP #6: 3/2/16 EDD 11/5/16
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  • CashewsMommyCashewsMommy member
    I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. There are a lot of women who are TTA right now, best of luck to you!


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  • millejj1millejj1 member
    I'm sorry for your loss, welcome to the board.
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  • Gilgenbach2007Gilgenbach2007 member
    Hello and welcome.  I'm sorry for your loss.
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  • ewilliams1127ewilliams1127 member
    I"m so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board!
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  • FmrAFBratFmrAFBrat member
    So sorry for your loss.  Hope your stay here is short.
    TTC January 2010
    BFP #1 10-11-10 ectopic discovered 10-22-10, 10-23-10 methotrexate & emergency surgery, lost right tube BFP #2 12-1-10 Found to be tissue dropped from salingectomy or missed heterotopic pregnancy from BFP #1 BFP #3 1-30-11 DS arrived on due date 10-10-11 BFP #4 Surprise 9-3-12 EDD 5-9-13 DS2 arrived 5-5-13 BFP #5 5-14-14 Emergency D&C 6-16-14 9 weeks
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  • johnnys junejohnnys june member
    Welcome!  And I'm sorry for your loss.  Take all the time you need before TTC!  There are definitely plenty of us TTA right now.  The women on this board are amazing!  They offer support, encouragement, inspiration, hope, and a place to vent!  GL in your journey!
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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    Welcome.  I am very sorry for your loss.
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
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  • TapatioTapatio
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome :)
    Natural MCs 2/4/09, 8/22/09 & 4/7/10
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  • GaberinosGaberinos
    I am sorry for your loss, but welcome to the board. The ladies here are awesome and I think you will enjoy your stay here!
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  • ccansdaleccansdale
    sorry for your loss.. welcome to the board!
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  • tew213tew213 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
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  • WifeyWynn0626WifeyWynn0626
    Welcome lavirl!
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  • lavrillavril member

    Thanks everyone for the warm welcome!! 

    Wifeywynn - nice to see you on here :)

    PGAL/PAL welcome
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    Trying to start our family since 2010
    BFP #1 11.4.10, EDD 7.12.11, HB 12/9/10, MMC 12/27/10; 11w6d
    BFP #2 9.12.12, EDD 5.24.13, Baby Boy Born 5.15.13!!
    My Ovulation Chart
    3 Clomid (100mg) cycles + TI + Trigger = BFN's, Femara + Trigger + IUI#1 = BFN
    Femara + Trigger + IUI#2 = BFP!
    "Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will." ~Gandhi
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  • LifeInANutshellLifeInANutshell member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board and I hope your stay here is super short!
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  • Fallon621Fallon621
    Yayyy April!  So glad you decided to come over here buddie!!  Smile  Welcome and hope we dont have to stay too long!
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  • clausekaclauseka member

    I am very sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.

    TTC in May 2009.
    M/C July 2009.
    BFP #2 6/1/11(1st cycle on Clomid)
    Norah Lynn was born on 2/3/2012
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  • twistedmetaltwistedmetal

    welcome to the board, and im sorry for your loss.

    i had a mmc too, not a fan 

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  • kristers20kristers20

    Hello and welcome to the board. I'm very sorry for your loss. I had a MMC, too.

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  • rosenb2brosenb2b member
    So sorry for your loss!  Welcome to the board!
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  • ColleenS629ColleenS629 member
    Welcome. I'm sorry for your loss.
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  • linz85linz85 member

    I'm so very sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board, it is filled with amazing wonderful ladies!

    Be sure to check out the blog, you can find it in many of the ladies siggies!

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  • anonomityanonomity
    I'm so sorry for your loss.  Welcome!  
    TTC since January 2010
    BFP 5/9/10. U/S - no heartbeat 6/2/10 (7 weeks). Induced miscarriage 6/7/10.
    Chemical pregnancies 12/2/10, 1/3/11, and 2/7/11.
    dx: RPL due to poor quality uterine lining; begin progesterone January 2011
    BFP 3/10/11. EDD 11/19/11. E arrived 11/15/11!

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  • kelliandjustinkelliandjustin
    Welcome!  I'm so sorry for your loss.
    TTC Since 2/09... BFP 12/26/09 - Missed miscarriage (6 weeks), D&C 1/28/10, BFP 4/23/10 - Miscarriage (18 wks 4 days) due to Turner's Syndrome, Delivered Lyla Ann on 7/29/10, BFP 12/10/10 - Natural miscarriage (5 weeks 6 days) 12/23/10, BFP 2/2/11 - EDD: 10/15/11 - Stick baby stick!!
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