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Poor DH

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I was taking down the Christmas decorations and I started to cry because I felt sad putting the Christmas stuff away and still no baby in sight.  I know silly, it was just one of many breakdowns.  Anyways, DH comes over to me and asked what was wrong.  All I could get out was "No baby".  He started getting all upset.  In a panic he says "what? what do you mean no baby...why? What happened?"

So now I am confused.  "Ummm dear....we don't have a baby and I'm not pregnant."  DH take a huge sigh of relief.  He said I thought the doctor called and canceled the IVF cycle.   DH is always very calm no matter what the situation so it was different seeing him like that.

I felt awful.  I ended up comforting him and stopped my crying!    

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Re: Poor DH

  • STL34STL34 member

    I'm sorry your DH got excited.  But, comforting him at least got your mind off of things.  I've freaked my DH out a few times with similar things.

    I know the feeling.  I teared up and nearly started crying at Target a week ago.  They had all of their Christmas decorations on sale so I picked up some more ornaments for next year.  While looking at the decorations, I kept seeing all of the kid/baby related ornaments and stockings.  It just hit me really hard.  This Christmas passing without finding any success and realizing that I most likely will not have a baby next Christmas and may not even be PG, have been really hard.  ((HUGE HUGS))

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    ~SAIF/PAIF/Everyone Welcome~ 

    Me= 37 and DH = 41 

    Dx: DOR, Endo, APA+ (really high beta 2 glycoprotein antibody and high everything else tested), heterozygous MTHFR mutation, positive for lupus anticoagulant, high FSH, low AMH and both tubes blocked (per HSG on 3/8/11)

    IVF #1 - long lupron (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 4 retrieved, 3 fertilized; ET 2 blasts and 1 frozen = BFN

    IVF #2 - a version of antagonist with EPP (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 6 retrieved, 4 mature, 3 fertilized, 2 blasts and 1 frozen blast transferred on day 5 = BFN.

    IVF #3 April was postponed to May, May was canceled. June/July was canceled. Had a cyst aspiration and then began IVF #3 in August. ER on 8/22; ET on 8/24 with AH. +HPT on 9/5. Beta #1 (11dpo) = 3; Beta #2 (15dpo) = 29; Beta #3 (17dpo) = 60; Beta #4 (19 dpo) = 118. Heartbeat at 6 weeks 6 days =132.  Lil is here!

    TTC#2:  Trigger + TI = BFN; Clomid + Trigger + IUI = BFN.

    IVF #4:  BCP + MDLF + Lovenox = 7R, 1F = Transferred 1 6-cell embryo on day 3 = BFN

    IVF #5:  MDLF + Lovenox = 4R, 1F = Transferred 1 10-cell compacting embryo on day 3 = BFN

    IVF #6:  (New RE):  Long Antagonist November 2014 (transferred two 8 cell grade 1 embryos and froze one blast) = BFN

    FET#1:  BFN

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  • beth0874beth0874
    imageSTL34:

    I'm sorry your DH got excited.  But, comforting him at least got your mind off of things.  I've freaked my DH out a few times with similar things.

    I know the feeling.  I teared up and nearly started crying at Target a week ago.  They had all of their Christmas decorations on sale so I picked up some more ornaments for next year.  While looking at the decorations, I kept seeing all of the kid/baby related ornaments and stockings.  It just hit me really hard.  This Christmas passing without finding any success and realizing that I most likely will not have a baby next Christmas and may not even be PG, have been really hard.  ((HUGE HUGS))

    ((big hugs)) back!

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