DS seems to really hate to be swaddled. He just fights and fights and will not relax until he's let loose. Because of this we haven't swaddled in the last 2 weeks. He's been sleeping in the RnP at night and sometimes we'll let him nap on his tummy in his crib. I guess my concern is, how are we going to get him to sleep on his back if he doesn't like to be swaddled? How did you get your LO used to sleeping on their back without the swaddle?
I guess I'm just having a hard time figuring it out because DD loved to be swaddled and STTN at an early age (on her back) thanks to the swaddle. If I lay DS down on his back, he'll immediately flail his arms and wake up. I've tried a few times in the last week to swaddle him for naps, but he still hates it and continuously fights it. So if you no longer swaddle, does your LO sleep on their back? And how did you get them used to that?
Re: Who no longer swaddles?
LO is 11 wks old, we havent swaddled him since he was 4 wks, He HATED it with a passion.. We never put him on his back unless its during nap time, and are with him in the same room.. For bed time I place him on one side, and roll a swaddle blanket up against his back so he cant be 100% on his back.. then after fhis night feeding I switch sides to help prevent any flat spots.
My girlfriend had a similar problem as you, she found having one hand out for a few nights, then the other hand out for a few nights then worked her way to loosening the swaddle for a few night to eventually just using a blanket..
maybe try this?
GL!
I started swaddling her with her arms out because she would grunt all night and Houdini herself out. Then I just decided it wasn't necessary and put her in a sleep sack.
She did better than I expected with the startling. She now STTN!
This for us too. DD hated her arms in. We used the sleep sack with the velcro swaddle to force her arms down for a couple weeks, but then stopped all together when she figured out how to get out of that too. She has slept on her back since day one and now she sprawls out on her back and is sleeping 5-6 hours at a stretch!
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