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Genetic counseling update

Sorry I'm so late, work was a disaster and then after work we had to go to a wake so... meh. Now I can finally bump at will!

First let me say I LOVE the genetic counselor we saw today, she spoke science to me after I told her I studied pre-med in college and of course put it in normal person speak for DH so we could all be on the same page. She reviewed our entire family history, discussed my nephews lab results, went at length to explain the variations that the translocation he carries could cause if I carry the defect as well. She threw some stats at me and I told her so far stats hadn't been working in my favor w/ the cervical ectopic but basically there is a chance that my nephews downs was a fluke chromosomal issue at the time of fertilization so there is a chance that the translocation doesnt' even exist in my family. BUT since there is the possibility that there is absolutely no reason to guess at it, and I got drawn for the testing today... I feel a LOT better about that. She said that if I am in fact a carrier, we've got at least better than 50% and up to 85% chance of having a successful pregnancy and a healthy baby so while the 50 frightens me a bit, 85 is pretty reassuring. She did say that hopefully it won't be an issue and my chromosomes are fine, but if it is we'll probably meet again to talk about options. So while I'm really nervous to get the results back, just to have the testing done w/out having to beg and plead, and to know that an answer to this part is in the works makes me feel so much better. Thanks for all the good thoughts coming my way today ladies, I truly appreciate all the wonderful support. *HUGS*

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  • Im so glad you got to talk it out with her today, I know this has been on your mind a lot! Sounds very promising and I hope your results come back quick so you can have some peace of mind!! Good luck T&P!!
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  • I am so glad you found someone you are comfortable with! I hope the test results give you some good information and that your chromosomes are all good.
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  • No matter the results, I hope you and DH figure something out and have a healthy pregnancy very soon :)  Glad you liked your counselor. 
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  • Glad you have a counselor that explained everything so clearly..for both you and DH!!  Sounds like you are in great hands, and I hope everything comes back from the testing with great results!
  • I'm glad your appointment went so well!  Here's to good blood!
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  • Hooray for a good appointment! All of this is a step in the right direction. I hope your test results bring you some more good news ((big hugs)).
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    Here's to good blood!

    I'll drink to that! Drinks Cheers!

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  • Yay for a good appointment!  It sounds like you are feeling better about everything :)
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  • That sounds like a great appointment!  I hope you get good results from all of your testing.  Good luck!
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  • Sounds like it was very informative. I'm glad that you have a good, reliable genetic counselor, and that you're finding some comfort/positivity with them. Cheers to a good day!
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  • Glad you had such a good appt. At mine the girl talked down to me and I tried to explain that I understood genetics.  Oh well, I know lots of people don't. 

    I am glad that you were able to get the testing done.  Hopefully it will come back that everything is perfectly fine!! 

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  • I'm glad everything went well today. I hope you continue to get good news.  It's great that your counselor is able to explain things to both of you in ways you understand.
  • Glad to hear you've got a plan you feel good about! Keep us updated!!
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  • I'm so glad you liked your genetic counselor!  I hope the results come back with good news.  It will be comforting to have some answers.
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  • I am glad your appointment went well. I hope you find out good news from the blood you had drawn. It sounds like you will have a good plan.
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  • T&P's that everything turns out great!  I'm glad you felt at home with the counselor that is always a feat in and of itself!
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  • I am glad that you were able to talk to someone today as well as get some good information.  T & P that the test will come back good...GL and keep us posted (HUGS)
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  • I so glad you had a good appt.  I hated our genetics counselor.  DH said when we left, "I missed a good nap for that!?!?!"

    FX for good lab results!!!

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  • Glad to hear your appt went well.

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  • She sounds awesome!  I hope that all goes well with the testing and that you get your results quickly.
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  • What a difference a good/understanding doc will make, no?  I am SO GLAD you felt good after your appointment and that you have a plan and have some information to move forward with.  It made my whole outlook change and I'm really happy for you! 

    Onward ho!!  

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  • So glad your appointment went well.  T&P's that you get good results.
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  • I'm really glad you loved your counselor.  Good thoughts headed your way!
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  • Sounds like a great appointment! I hope your results come back just as good.
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  • I am so happy that you love your RE!!  She sounds like she's a really good fit for your guys.  Plus, she cuts to the chase and just lays everything out for you and comes up with a game plan - that's excellent!  I hope your results come back soon so you can move forward.  I know the TTA has been a total pain.

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