So my beta is finally negative and I was looking forward to do some testing but got the feeling my OB was putting it off. She called last night and gave the go ahead to try end of feb/ early march but doesn't see the point of doing testing bc she doesn't feel my two m/c were related. I am still uneasy that this last pregnancy was never technically confirmed ectopic so it could have been another nonviable intrauterine. That makes me feel testing is important. She feels I just had bad luck.
She did offer a referall to an RE to get a second opinion and said that this particular dr is relays smart and may want to be more aggressive. I was able to get in next Thursday which has taken a bit of pressure off my chest. I am very much looking forward to getting a fresh perspective of this past year. My only fear is she will say a differ t wait time to ttc... I read online some doctors recommending 6 months after 2 methotrexate doses, my doc says not necessary as it is out of your system within just a week or so just the 3 months! Anyone have experience with the two doses??
Anyway I babble a lot but I feel like I am getting a fresh start in a way...
BFP #1 6/18/10 Saw HB 7/15/10 Missed M/C 8/17/10 @ 12 weeks 2 days- 2 D&C's( 8/20 and 8/26)
BFP#2 11/21/10 Nonviable at 5wks, possible ectopic. Methotrexate 12/3/10&12/9/10
BFP#3 3/10/11 Beta@12dpo 39 Beta@14dpo 160! 21 DPO 2439 HB at 7wks 127 EDD 11/17/11
ITS A BOY!!!! Born 11/13/11 BFP #4: 10/29/12 edd 7/11/12

Re: Beta is zero.... Made an RE appt
ITS A BOY!!!! Born 11/13/11 BFP #4: 10/29/12 edd 7/11/12
BFP 1: 3/19/10 Loss: 7/9/10
BFP 2: 12/28/10
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Seeing an RE (if even just to help manage your fears) is never a bad idea in my opinion.
My RE helped me to feel so much more grounded with the TTC process. I was able to check all the boxes and develop a plan that fit my needs.
TTC since 5/2010
DX with Diminished Ovarian Reserve - AMH of 1.1 - 7/2011; AMH of .42 8/2012BFP 9/1/10-M/C confirmed 9/8/10-Methotrexate 10/6/10
IUI #1 (w/clomid)-9/5/11-BFN ; IUI #2 (w/clomid)-10/5/11 - BFP - 11/1/12-No sac seen; 11/2/11 and 11/9/11-Methotrexate
IVF #1- ER 2/2; ET 2/5;-Two 8 cell embryos transfered = BFFN
Surprise BFP - 5/7/12
U/S on 6/8/12 - H/B at 128 BPM; U/S on 6/14/12 @ 9wks-No H/B-D&C on 6/17/12
IVF 2.0- ER 10/17; ET 10/20-One 12 cell, one 10 cell and one 8 cell embryo transfered
BFP! 11/16/12 U/S- Two nuggets with perfect heartbeats! EDD 7/10/13
5/31/2013- My miracles arrived at 34w2d! Welcome to the world Harper and Nolan!

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Dx: MFI- 3% morph
IUIs: Gonal-F + Ovidrel + b2b IUI= BFNs
IVF with ICSI= BFP! EDD 11/25/11
3/18- Beta #1 452! 3/20- Beta #2 1,026!! 3/27- First u/s- TWINS!
Our twin boys arrived at 36w5d due to IUGR and a growth discordance
Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.
I think this is great news all around. Hopefully the RE will do exactly what you said and give you a fresh perspective on everything. If nothing else, they will hopefully reassure you of the diagnosis your OB made.
Best of luck! I'll be looking forward to an update next week!
Good for you for sticking to your guns!
I hope you get answers and some peace of mind.
Dx with Antiphospholipid Antibody Syndrome (APS)
BFP #4 5/14/12
5/17/12...1st Betas- 176, P4 3.6
5/22/12...2nd Betas- 207, P4 6.1 (MC confirmed)