I love the name Seamus (pronounced SHAY-mus). I know it's a take or leave it kind of name for many of you. My husband would prefer if we called future DS Shea.
So to my question...would you use Shea as a nn? Or Shay? Or are both on the girly side?
TIA!
Re: Shea - for a boy?
I like Shea for a boy too. My husband did not. We went with Shane. After Shane was born when we told people about Shea most people told me it was for a girl not a boy
I still like it for a boy, but you are going to hear that a lot
I'd use neither Shea nor Shay, but just because I dislike them both, not because I think they're girly. I've only known guy Sheas (and no Shays). If I had to pick one, I'd go with Shea.
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My Brother In-Law is named Shea. He's a class clown type of guy, and therefore is usually the one who makes fun of people, so he never gets teased about his name. But I don't think he would get made fun of anyway. Shea is a valid spelling for boys (see below). One of our girl friends expands his name to Seamus sometimes (in a good way- she's not making fun of him).
According to BehindTheName.com:
Shea is a unisex Irish spelling
Shay is masculine Irish spelling, or a unisex Hebrew spelling
Shae is a feminine English(modern) spelling.
If I personally was using this name, I would use Shea for a boy and Shae for a girl.
Also a lurker... my name is Shaylee.
I've met one boy named Shea, and one girl named Shay. It's totally unique and I get complimented almost everyday.
Not sure about Seamus. IMO people are going to call him Sea - mus, without knowing the correct pronunciation.
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11.07.09