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Lost my Angel

luckylady55luckylady55
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I had a D & C yesterday, I was 8 weeks along but an ultrasound showed that the baby has died at 6.  I just don't know how to feel.  I was really emotional before and now its like someone pressed the reset button and turned off my emotions.  Is this normal?  I have to go back to work tommorrow where it seems as if everyone is pregnant,  I am afraid if I am not a mess people will think somethings wrong with me. 
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Re: Lost my Angel

  • erikaja6erikaja6 member

    I am so sorry for your loss.  I think it's very normal to experience a range of emotions when dealing with a miscarriage.  You are still early in the grieving process and may end up having lots of different feelings.  I've had moments where I just felt numb.  Other times I was hysterically crying and couldn't stop asking "why me".  Although I still feel sad at times, I am approaching the point where I am ready to move forward and start trying to conceive again.  Try not to worry about what other people will think about how you're dealing with your miscarriage.  It's not about them - it's about you.  Take care of yourself. 

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  • WifeyWynn0626WifeyWynn0626
    I'm so sorry for you loss. I felt that way after my surgery. I would feel numb, just go about my day then at the most random times, I'd break down. It's completely normal to feel so many different things and it's hard to process so many emotions at once. I've found that by starting a blog to write all my feelings down, helped me process and organize my thoughts. I hope you find something to help you out. ((hugs))
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