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Grrr...some people (Vent)

kkghottykkghotty member
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With the impending arrival of twins, DH and I decided it would probably be smart to purchase life insurance policies.  The company we purchased from sent a nurse to our home this morning to do the physical/medical exam that is required.  Can I just tell you how RUDE this woman was?!!! 

First, she weighed DH and commented on how he "must have packed on some weight over the holidays."  It couldn't be further from the truth...DH is probably one of the fittest people I know. And really, how would she know anyway?! 

Then, she criticized my weight gain (I had to tell her pre-pregnancy weight)!  Mind you, I am 21 weeks pregnant wtih twins...its not so crazy that I have gained 17 pounds lady. 

Then, the final straw...she asked if I had been treated at any other medical facilities besides my PCP or OB in the last 5 years.  I mentioned the fertility clinic.  Her response?  I quote..."Well, I don't mean to brag, but when I had my babies, I got pregnant so quickly that it was almost embarrassing."  Really lady????

Ugh...sorry to vent. 

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  • ohiostategalohiostategal member
    omg all of those comments are completely unacceptable.  I would be calling the insurance company to complain about the nurse they sent!
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  • njohnson1972njohnson1972 member
    That sucks.  And that was really inappropriate of her to say those things to you.
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  • msjcordovamsjcordova member
     I too would be calling to complain.I might have also sent a throat punch her way =)
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  • kkghottykkghotty member

    imageohiostategal:
    omg all of those comments are completely unacceptable.  I would be calling the insurance company to complain about the nurse they sent!

    Oh, I will be sending a nice email to my agent...just as soon as I calm down :)

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  • cara-n-stevecara-n-steve member
    UGH!!!  She should be fired!  I hate rude people!
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  • legaleagleslegaleagles member
    imagekkghotty:

    imageohiostategal:
    omg all of those comments are completely unacceptable.  I would be calling the insurance company to complain about the nurse they sent!

    Oh, I will be sending a nice email to my agent...just as soon as I calm down :)

    Good...how unbelievably rude and inappropriate and unprofessional. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. 

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  • etoyamaetoyama member
    What an a-hole!! Definitely, definitely file a complaint!
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  • MyShellyBellyMyShellyBelly
    Holy moly. The comment about getting pregnant quickly would have sealed the deal on me calling whatever employer she works for to complain. I guess the filter from her brain to her mouth was still out for the holidays...
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  • mdluv21mdluv21
    She was a complete biitch on some many levels that it is unbelievable!  I am sorry you had to deal with that!
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  • Dragonfly1226Dragonfly1226 member

    OMG! I give you at on of credit for not telling her off.

    I would definitely call the company and complain.

    She deserves a throat punch for just the last comment alone. 

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