woo hoo! finally some success. after not napping for 6 days (longest stretch ever) because he was just yelling "good nap" and opening the door (new skill) and running out of the room after 5 min. i tried a whole variety of suggestions.
i let him have "quiet time" on the sofa and watch tv as long as he was laying down - worked for one day and then he just wanted to sit up and play.
i used a baby gate to block the door to his room. he stood there and yelled "hi mama" for an hour and never slept. which was ok with me, because i figured the next day he would probably know i meant business and would give in and nap. but, i couldn't close the door with the gate in, so i didn't put it in at night and he woke me up the next morning by running into our bedroom and i freaked for safety reasons that i didn't want him running all over the house before we were awake.
finally (i don't know why i put off trying this-duh) i went and bought a freaking doorknob cover safety thing from bru. he was really heated about the fact that he could no longer open the door, but after 45 min of protesting, took a 2+ hour nap yesterday. today, i heard him get out of bed, try the door for about 30 seconds and then get back in bed and go to sleep 2+ hour nap again.
thanks for all of your suggestions. i'm totally psyched that i didn't just decide he was done napping altogether.
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