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bad lurk (vent)

lauren.cuslauren.cus member
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Ugh...so I lurked on my old month board today. Why do we do these things to ourselves???? They're all so happy and excited and talking about where they're going to register and who's going on a babymoon. I'm so incredibly happy for them, but I should be over there worrying about whether I'm going to register at Babies R Us or Buy Buy Baby...ugh bad day. Sorry, I really hope this post doesn't bring you all down I just really needed to vent to others who understood.
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  • Junebug060609Junebug060609 member

    Pretty sure we've been lurking on the same board. 

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  • vitanvitan member

    You're not alone. I haven't gone to the board (July) but I had bookmarked a few people who kept blogs and every now and then I check out their blogs. The most recent posts were of them telling their family on Christmas. Sad

    I did okay this time but there have been times when I'm pretty sad about it and like you I think what the hell was I thinking. 

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  • LDW80LDW80
    I made that mistake too going to my old board (July) yesterday.  I was even lurking at TTCAL and I saw some ladies I recgonized from July board and happened to look at their tickers and they were where I should be.  I lost it then and had to step away from the computer.  My DH thinks I spend to much time on here but sometimes I feel this is the only place I can go to.
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  • DragonflyBelleDragonflyBelle
    I have posted twice in Jan 2011 since losing Cailin. Once to let them know and another to wish them a Merry Christmas. They are all such awesome ladies. Makes me pretty sad to see their "HE/SHE's here!!!" posts, but I try not to read them...don't know how I would feel if I did.
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  • lauren.cuslauren.cus member

    I'm so sorry that all you ladies are going through this same thing, but I'm so happy we have each other for comfort. I really hate that it seems like a lot of us are lurking on the same month board:( It seems like so many of the July 11 moms are now here...

    DragonflyBelle: it breaks my heart that you're having to see the "HE/SHE's here" posts. I'm just going to have to avoid my month board around July like it's the plague. That's so strong of you to still comment on yours.

     Love you ladies! 

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  • PiperSPiperS member

    I was also on the July 11 board. I am so sad to be here but I am hoping I will find it comforting.

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