Finally some closure
awinning
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I'm just going to warn you that this might end up being long and rambly but I wanted to share with you all.
I worked last night and had the opportunity to speak with one of the people that works with women after pregnancy loss. I explained to her that after my D&C in September, no one from their department ever talked to me. I know that they really do make the best effort at doing so, but I didn't want other women to be forgotten about, which is sort of how I felt. The lady I spoke to was very nice last night and said she'd put together some resources for me and call me sometime next week (this was at 11pm last night).
This morning she called me to let me know she put some information together and would leave it in my mailbox at work. She said she'd call me next week after I had time to look over things.
My phone rings 10 minutes later and it was the same lady. She said she had good news for me. They went through my file and checked some things and our little one is being cremated tomorrow. I am amazed at how perfectly the timing worked out because I'd been meaning to speak to this lady for a couple months now but just never had time.
They also have a memorial service in April (right around the EDD) and we will be invited. I think all of this is really helping me to heal and I am so happy to feel like I've got some closure and can move forward. I think 2011 is all ready looking to be a good year for us.
Thank you all for your support and for letting me share.
Re: Finally some closure
Thanks Moesten. I really appreciate all of the positive support you provide. You always have a way of touching my heart.
Love you!
ditto
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