I have been very depressed lately....not sure whether it's the pregnancy hormones contributing to it or not. Lately I've been questioning my marriage, my decisions in life, and even whether I should've gotten pregnant (worried I'll be a horrible mother, etc).
Do you think this is normal or could it be due to depression?
Thanks in advanced for your answers ladies....I wish you all the best in 2011...hopefully a happy, depression-free year for all of us.
Re: Anyone experience depression DURING pregnancy?
Thanks Wellsmk, for your reply. I think exercising might help too, but right now i'm too nausous...if i'm on my feet too long I end up getting dizzy and throwing up. So I've been laying down most of the time just to keep from throwing up. Maybe i'm bored (have been on holidays since Dec 23rd) and just have too much time on my hands to think lately. But i've been thinking really negatively lately, from everything from my marriage and husband (feeling that I made a mistake marrying him) to negative thoughts about myself, my ability to be a good mother, value as a person, etc. Its starting to affect my relationship with my husband. All i did yesterday evening was lay in bed and cry. I hope this is due to the hormones and not some more serious issue.
Thanks for your replies. I did suffer from depression previously...it just seems alot worse since i became pregnant. I am considering seeing a counsellor....I am just worried about developing PPD depression once the baby is born since I'm already at an increased risk with my previous episodes of depression. This whole thing is scarey. I'm not good with change, and developing delibilitating depression and not being able to take care of my baby and/or myself is my biggest fear.
Thanks all...good luck to you.
Me too. I've never had depression before and didn't experience this with my first pregnancy. Also, my MW ran my bloodwork and my iron, vitamin D, and thyroid levels were all out of whack which could have contributed to the feelings of depression. I started zoloft along with taking supplements for the iron and vitamin D and started feeling much better - pretty much back to my old self. I highly recommend talking to your Dr. about it because it's horrible to spend every day feeling that way. GL.
I too had depression (among other mental issues) prior to becoming pregnant. I don't know if it was just the hormones combined with my pre-existing issues, or a combination of everything else going on in my life at the time, but I became horribly depressed during my first trimester. At one point it was so bad that DH and I were seriously considering terminating the pregnancy in an attempt to preserve my own mental health. Fortunately, the depression let up a couple weeks into my second trimester, but did return (though not nearly as severe) very late in the third trimester. I think the second bout late in the pregnancy was directly related to being uncomfortable and frustrated that I still hadn't given birth. I agree with PPs that you should definitley talk to someone about it. I wish I had.
So far though, I have not experienced any signs of PPD.