TTC After a Loss

Need some help from you ladies...

I just experienced my 2nd m/c yesterday, almost a year to the date form my last one.  Since I've been going through IF treatment, I demanded last  year after my m/c that they run a multiple-miscarriage blood work panel between my husband and I.  They did and everything looks great.  Now that I'm going through my 2nd miscarriage.  I gotta know what I need to ask my doctor.

I have to be very prepared for my WTF appt. and I'm hoping that you ladies can give me the best advice . Thanks..

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  • I am really sorry for you losses..I am not sure I have any advice just hugs
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  • I just suffered my second loss on Christmas. I will see my dr. and demand a RPL panel for myself first. Hopefully some bloodwork can be done at least.

    I really don't have much information since I'm newer at this but wanted to say sorry for your loss. I hope 2011 is a better year for you.

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  • I'm sorry for your loss. I don't have any advice.
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  •  I don't have any advice but I wanted to say I am so sorry you are going through this again.
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  • Im very sorry for your losses. I recently went through my second as well... Waiting for my beta to drop for further testing so I'm not to sure yet what that will entail. Good luck and (((hugs)))
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  • I'm sorry for your loss.

    I had RPL testing after my 2nd miscarriage.

  • So sorry for your losses. You can ask the dr about running Karyotyping on you and dh, see if when they ran blood work if did checked for autoimmune or for natural killer cells.

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  • I am so sorry for your losses.  The only thing I can think of is ask about testing for blood clotting disorders (MTHFR, Factor V Leiden, etc) if that hasn't already been done.  I hope you are able to get some answers.
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  • I don't have any advice for you, but wanted to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. I hope the DR will have answers for you.

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  • I'm sorry, I have no useful advice, but I am very sorry about your losses.
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  • I am so sorry for your losses. I had the RPL panel done. You can see if your Dr. would do that.
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  • *hugs*  I am so sorry for your losses :(  Welcome to the board.  I wish I had advice, I really do.  
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  • I am so sorry for your losses.  I don't have any advice for your question, but I wanted to welcome you to the board.

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  • I don't have any advice but I am so sorry that you are going through this after all you've already been through.

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  • I'm sorry for your losses... I wish I had something to contribute... just hugs and a wish for good luck in the future!
  • I am so very sorry to hear about your loss ((((hugs)))). 

    I am not sure if there is anything you can really do at this point if all of the RPL panel came back fine from the first time.  You could ask if there are any additional blood tests for any clotting issues that they didn't run the first time.  I know my RE did not order some of the less common clotting anti-bodies, but when I came back + for factor v leiden and went to the hemotologist, she ran some more tests.  Maybe there could be something else they didn't test for. 

    Unfortunately, they may not find anything and it may have just been bad luck twice in a row.  I know that is just terrible to hear, but sometimes they can never find anything.  I hope that you are able to get some answers though and move forward.  (((hugs))).

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  • I am so sorry for your losses. I have no advice but I wanted to say sorry honey.
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