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pennynjonpennynjon
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I guess I should introduce myself. My husband and I lost our daughter, Ella, to anencephaly in May. We waited 6 months to try again. We found out we were expecting again in Nov. The whole pregnancy was a bumpy ride from the beginning, but we were hoping so bad that it would end with a healthy baby that we could keep. We saw a heartbeat at seven weeks, but it was slow And the baby was messuring behind. Last week the heartbeat was gone and the baby had stopped growing. I had a d&c a week ago. I did talk my doctor into testing and should get some results next week. We were told to wait one cycle then we can try again. I can't shake this funk that I am in. I feel like it will never happen for us. We have been together 9 years, and I am so ready for the next chapter of our lives. 2010 has been the hardest year of my life. I just feel so empty and miss my babies. I am praying for good news in 2011. I look forward to getting to know you all. Sorry if this in bold. I am posting from my phone and having issues.
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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    Welcome.  We're sorry you have to be here.
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    Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle!
    April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks
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  • mystikaljessmystikaljess
    Welcome, so sorry for your losses. 
    Natural m/c 12/24/09. IUI #1 BFN. IUI #2 Chemical. IUI #3 BFN. Diagnosis MFI. IVF #1 BFP. Adriana 4/11/12.
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  • rjl07rjl07
    I'm so sorry for your losses, but welcome to the board.  I hope 2011 is a better year for you.
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  • Fififa21Fififa21 member
    I'm so sorry you have to be here, but welcome to the board.

    BFP #1 4/22/10 MC 5/5/10 (6w4d) EDD 12/25/10
    BFP #2 10/19/10 CP 10/27/10 (4w6d) EDD 6/30/11
    BFP #3 5/10/11 Lucas Abelardo born 12/29/11 at 37w3d
    BFP #4 12/10/12 MMC 1/14/13 (9w3d) D&C 1/15/13 EDD 8/16/13 

    BFP #5 8/22/13 Lucia Elizabeth born 4/17/14 at 38w
     
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  • GuppyAmyGuppyAmy member
    I'm sorry for your losses but welcome.
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  • TeacherVickyTeacherVicky member
    I'm sorry you have to be here, but welcome.
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    Welcome to the board. So sorry for your losses.

    Jenn

    image 3 IUI's all BFN

    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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  • michroccmichrocc member
    I'm so very sorry for your losses.  Welcome to our board and lots of hugs. 
    BFP#1 10/19/09, m/c 12/5/09, BFP#2 2/03/12, m/c 2/12/12, BFP#3 3/18/13, LO born 11/22/13

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  • jillcanadajillcanada
    Ahhh...Penny, I'm so sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board.
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    BFP #1: 07/10/2009, Missed m/c, D&C 08/12/2009
    BFP #2: 01/31/2010, Identical Twins died in utero due to TTTS, D&E 05/19/2010
    BFP #3: 09/16/2010, natural m/c 9/21/2010
    PCOS & Bocornuate Uterus Dx 1.4.2011
    BFP #4: 01/11/2011
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  • mdm2137mdm2137
    I'm so sorry you have to join us, but welcome.

    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
    May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
    11/26/11 Surprise BFP * DD born 7/23/12 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • hopefulelisehopefulelise
    Hi penny, I just made my intro here too this week. Sorry for your loss again. Sad
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  • cutebride73cutebride73 member
    Hi Penny - sorry you have to move over, but welcome.  
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  • ColleenS629ColleenS629 member
    Welcome. I'm sorry you have to be here.
    m/c 7/17/10
    Dx: MFI- 3% morph
    IUIs: Gonal-F + Ovidrel + b2b IUI= BFNs
    IVF with ICSI= BFP! EDD 11/25/11
    3/18- Beta #1 452! 3/20- Beta #2 1,026!! 3/27- First u/s- TWINS!
    Our twin boys arrived at 36w5d due to IUGR and a growth discordance

    FET: Medicated FET moved up to 5/23 due to ovulation
    Transferred a 6BB hatched blastocyst- genetically normal female embryo
    BFP! 5/28- 5dp6dt      
    6/1 Beta #1- 223! 6/3 Beta #2- 567!

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     Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.
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  • sunshinenvasunshinenva
    Penny I have been missing in action online, but glad I logged on to hear from you.  I am sorry to hear about your loss last month.  You have been on my mind and in my thoughts ever since I met you through our Elfster. I pray 2011 will bring you and your husband your miracle baby.
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