Trying to Get Pregnant

Big.Fat.Fail.

DH and I had already discussed the issue of keeping TTC to ourselves. I have not told anyone but my mom and his Mom also found out.

He just recently tells me has has told almost everyone he works with, all of his friends, (should I go on?). To top it all off, he has been discussing my AF and O (possibly no O) with a man that I absolutely Can. Not. Stand! Grrrrrr DH!

It just really bothers me now because people are now going to be asking "are you PG yet"  "Um NO!" 

I do not want to be asked if I am PG if I am not. Sorry ladies. Just a wee bit p!ssed at the moment.

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  • I'm sorry. That is irritating. I understand wanting to keep this to yourself until there is actually news to share.
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  • Do you watch "How I Met Your Mother?" I am totally envisioning the scene where Marshall leaves work and all of his co-workers are pumping him up to get his wife pg. 

    I would be mortified!!

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  • Well if that's not motivation, I don't know what is!
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  • imagepartymama:

    Do you watch "How I Met Your Mother?" I am totally envisioning the scene where Marshall leaves work and all of his co-workers are pumping him up to get his wife pg. 

    I would be mortified!!

    LOL this is exactly what I was thinking too!!!

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  • That really sucks. Sorry. Honestly if one of my husband's friends started talking about his wife's periods and ovulation my husband would block it out and never want to bring up the topic again. Hopefully people will respect you and your privacy.

    Try to think about the positive side though: your husband is very happy and excited!

     

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  • imagepartymama:

    Do you watch "How I Met Your Mother?" I am totally envisioning the scene where Marshall leaves work and all of his co-workers are pumping him up to get his wife pg. 

    I would be mortified!!

    Omg I have never seen that show but I am plenty mortified! lol. I have a mental pic. You would have to know these people!

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    Well if that's not motivation, I don't know what is!

    I mean I'm glad he is excited and all but, dayum.....ugh

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  • imageStarAnnice:
    Pssshhhh...and men say that women talk too much!  Hope you get a BFP soon :)

    Exactly! Thank You!

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  • Oooh I'd be annoyed too.  I know DH has told some people at his work, but more for support/general kid-related discussion purposes, since his work friends have kids and don't operate in the same social circles as any of our other friends, really.  That didn't bother me, but he knows not to go any further!  
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  • Ugh!! DH did this to me. When we found out that his sperm is perfect (sickening), he had his friends from work call so I could tell them exactly what the doctor said about his swimmies... Not thinking of the fact that if he's perfect...that means I"M the problem!!! So, I stopped answering the phone and made him sleep on the couch. And they say WE talk too much??
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  • Sorry your husband did that! Sad

    It is great that he's really excited, but I know what you mean about not wanting to hear "are you pregnant yet?" all the time.  We have a few friends and family who knew that we want to have kids right away after getting married and even that makes me hope that they don't ask that question all the time!

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  • OMG - I would kill my DH if he did this!! Men can be so stupid!
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  • That is no good, I know how you feel on this one. My husband told people that he works with and some of our close friends that we were going to start trying in the next couple months, I was so  mad that I told him to go tell them all that he was lying. So needless to say I have spent the last 3 months telling people that we are not trying (or going to be trying). Now that we actually are trying I am making sure he keeps his mouth shut about it. It just makes me feel like there is too much pressure.

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  • Wow, sounds like my DH! He told my MIL and his boss before we even started TTC. Those were the two ppl I didn't want to know! However, I inherited a great glider from DH's boss, so not a total loss. ;)
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  • I'm sorry - I kind of know how you feel, though - DH posted on FB about our TTC.  I had a friend text me and say something about how she had no idea that we were trying.  I had to QUICKLY call him, explain my position on the issue, and TELL him to delete the post!  He said he was just excited about our experiences... maybe that's the case with your H?
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  • That sucks, sorry to hear your DH blabbed.
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