Will they do IVF if you want it without doing all the other things... IUI and all the drugs? metformin and clomid?
TTC since April 2009
3 rounds of Femara and Metformin= BFN
HSG all clear and SA perfect
Unexplained IF
IUI #1 May Femara and Ovidrel=BFN
Re: crazy question
Listen to Papps, she is wise.
OP, your post kind of rubs me the wrong way. I think I speak for most of us who are doing IVF when I say we would gladly do IUI's, clomid/Femara if it would work for us. IVF is kind of a last resort. I also think you (and your RE) can learn a lot from doing IUI cycles. You'll see how you respond to stimulation and if you are prone to cysts, how your lining looks throughout your cycle, etc. And frankly I wouldn't have gotten my endo. dx if I hadn't done an IUI.
I know it's hard when you've been trying for a while. Take Papps advice and find a good RE in your area. Good luck to you.
I have not gone down the IVF road yet- or even IUI for that matter, but from my perspective, I would much rather try the cheaper/easier/whatever routes first before wanting to do IVF.
While I understand that following the continuum of care from TI all the way to IFV would be more expensive in the long run when you add it up- I just try to keep positive that maybe something will work- and I won't have to go to that last step.
Skipping to IVF might be cheaper than IVF+IUI+everything else in your timeline, but you never know if something a little less invasive might work.
At least that is how I feel. I might end up being able to just go up one more level- and save thousands...
You just never know.