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Those that are 8DPO today

Are you ladies planning on testing tomorrow? I am not sure if I should or not. If it's a BFN (which is what I am predicting) I would have a beverage or two with friends for NYE. I'm just not sure if I can handle a BFN. FYI I am pretty sure of when I ovulated, I wasn't temping but using OPKs.
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Re: Those that are 8DPO today

  • I'm actually 10dpo and I keep asking myself the same question. I didn't get my BFP until really late with my lat pregnancy so I don't like to test early. Plus, I feel like AF is just around the corner and I don't want to waste a test. But the suspense is killing me!
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  • I am 8dpo and I definitely plan to test.  Even if I get a negative, I will not be drinking.  I am going to have a lot of my friends over who will make me forget about my issues, so I figure I just do it tomorrow.  GL.......I hope you get your BFP!
  • imagestillwaiting12:
    I'm actually 10dpo and I keep asking myself the same question. I didn't get my BFP until really late with my lat pregnancy so I don't like to test early. Plus, I feel like AF is just around the corner and I don't want to waste a test. But the suspense is killing me!
    I hope we both get BFPs tomorrow and can be PGAL buddies! Good luck!
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  • imageDeepak&Derek:
    I am 8dpo and I definitely plan to test.  Even if I get a negative, I will not be drinking.  I am going to have a lot of my friends over who will make me forget about my issues, so I figure I just do it tomorrow.  GL.......I hope you get your BFP!
    GL testing tomorrow! Hopefully we both get to join PGAL together!!!
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  • I'm still undecided.  I used a trigger this cycle and I still got a super faint + today (I am testing out the trigger - it can stay in your system for 10-12 days), so a + could mean nothing at all. 

    I am also having zero syptoms - all the phantom ones from my trigger are gone and I am feeling pretty sure that this cycle is a bust.  I know it's still early, I am just feeling pretty down right now.  The phantom symptoms from the trigger were something else and really messed with my head. 

    So I don't think I am going to test tomorrow, I just won't go overboard tomorrow night with drinking and I may test again on Saturday or Sunday.  By then I will be able to see if the faint line is completely gone or if it's still there and darker.   

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  • I am in the 8 dpo club and I will be testing tomorrow! My stupid ob told me to start testing at 7 dpo (i don't think she understands how hpts work) but I was a rebel and didnt start until this morning - oh yeah, i am getting down with my big bad rebel self. I don't think I even really Od this cycle so have very little hope that we are pg but getting another BFN will make me feel better having a few drinks tomorrow night.

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  • I am on 8DPO'er Smile

    But I was on Clomid this cycle and so I went for the blood work today - starting tomorrow I will probably continue testing with ICs until AF shows just to be sure, but I got my last BFP at 10DPO so I am typically an early tester by nature.

    My OB and I both feel like this cycle was a bust (didn't really respond to the meds like we had hoped) and so I am almost positive I will be indulging in a beverage (or a few) tomorrow evening. Gotta ring in 2011 properly, hopefully it's better than 2010!

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  • I am a 10dpo'er and tested today and got a negative.  Like a PP, I only received positives later on- never early.  Not sure why I even bothered to test, but I guess I just needed to.  I am torn on drinking tomorrow, and if I do, just something small.  Do what feels you most comfortable and enjoy!
  • I am 9DPO and my order of Wondfo cheapies came in the mail yesterday and they came with 10 pregnancy tests.  I just HAD to try one today, but got a stark white BFN!  But i expected it.  When I was pregnant before, I got 4 negatives before my missed period but then a positive 1 days after my missed period.  So, I still have hope!  I will test again tomorrow, even though I am expecting a BFN, but just so that I feel a little more comfortable to have a few drinks for NYE. 

    Fingers crossed for everyone else!

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  • I'm at 10 dpo now and I'm going to try to stick it out to see if AF shows....I might break down and test the 1st if she doesn't show.  MF is totally screwing with me though!
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  • Good luck to all of you! Wishing you a New Year's BFP and a great start to 2011!
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  • GL ladies!
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    3/18- Beta #1 452! 3/20- Beta #2 1,026!! 3/27- First u/s- TWINS!
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    FET: Medicated FET moved up to 5/23 due to ovulation
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    6/1 Beta #1- 223! 6/3 Beta #2- 567!

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  • I'm at 8 DPO and I've already tested... I won't be drinking even if I get a BFN I couldn't take the guilt if I was pg and something happened again.
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