PolyMama2Be

AutumnLeavesFall · December 2010

I am no way trying to offend you in any way... ( This sounds like the please don't flame me post... hummm)

But I noticed your signature.. is that what I think it means?

PolyMama2Be · December 2010

Yep, it means exactly what you think it means...

And to anyone who may find it upsetting in any way, I won't apologize, but I will say that I while it was never what I thought life had in store for me, I'm extremely happy.

I also welcome any questions anyone might have. I know I would have some

I don't expect everyone to understand it, but to accept me you have to accept that part of me.

emeraudecephiro · December 2010

I don't find it upsetting, I'm just as curious as a 4 year old about it more than anything

Are you with two guys, or two girls...?

PolyMama2Be · December 2010

One of each actually

I knew from a very young age that I was interested in women, but also always knew I would be married to a man.

We kind of stumbled into this arrangement accidentally and somewhere down the line my gf and my bf became best friends. They have a different relationship than I have with either of them individually, but we just seem to "fit" together.

AutumnLeavesFall · December 2010

PolyMama2Be:

Yep, it means exactly what you think it means...

And to anyone who may find it upsetting in any way, I won't apologize, but I will say that I while it was never what I thought life had in store for me, I'm extremely happy.

I also welcome any questions anyone might have. I know I would have some

I don't expect everyone to understand it, but to accept me you have to accept that part of me.

Not upsetting at all. I am a very open minded person who hangs out with crossdressers on weekends (yeah my old boss is one, rocks a skirt better than me)

I was just as Susan said intrested like a 4 year old.

emeraudecephiro · December 2010

I have a lot of respect for people that can do this, I am way too jealous to do that...more power to you!

PolyMama2Be · December 2010

AutumnLeavesFall:

Not upsetting at all. I am a very open minded person who hangs out with crossdressers on weekends (yeah my old boss is one, rocks a skirt better than me)
I was just as Susan said intrested like a 4 year old.

Yay for open minds AND jealous of your ex boss rockin' skirts. I don't even wear skirts unless there are dark tights, tall boots, and a knee length skirt involved... hmm, maybe I really need to spend more time at the gym while TTC

PolyMama2Be · December 2010

AutumnLeavesFall:

Not upsetting at all. I am a very open minded person who hangs out with crossdressers on weekends (yeah my old boss is one, rocks a skirt better than me)
I was just as Susan said intrested like a 4 year old.

Yay for open minds AND jealous of your ex boss rockin' skirts. I don't even wear skirts unless there are dark tights, tall boots, and a knee length skirt involved... hmm, maybe I really need to spend more time at the gym while TTC

JulsW · December 2010

:::butting in::::

I don't find it upsetting or offensive in any way and like the two before said, just extremely curious. So does your gf and your bf sleep together? Or is it you and her and you and him? Are they also TTC? This just has me very intersted!

PolyMama2Be · December 2010

JulsW:
:::butting in::::
I don't find it upsetting or offensive in any way and like the two before said, just extremely curious. So does your gf and your bf sleep together? Or is it you and her and you and him? Are they also TTC? This just has me very intersted!

I don't mind the questions. I'm a pretty open person... Sooo, we all sleep in the same bed usually. Sometimes one of us sleeps on the couch or in the spare room.

As far as the "sleeping" together, yes we all do sometimes, but it's moreso me and him or me and her. Frankly we always joke that my gf is a "lesbian with hetero tendencies."

Contrary to what a lot of people might suspect, he never pushes the subject or really asks to be involved. He lets us make that decision.

As far as jealousy, the only time I really get jealous is when I'm cranky and go off on my own and I can hear them laughing and getting along (bc damn it if I'm pissed, no one should be happy! lol, j/k), but that was mainly hormones anyway.

Like any relationship, there are problems that come up. Typically pretty mundane, but there are ones that you just don't think of ahead of time in a situation like this that rear their heads. There are also perks too, like 3 incomes, 3 adults to do chores/errands, and you're hardly ever alone if you don't want to be.

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