TTC After a Loss

Time for an Intro

Hi ladies,

I've been lurking a couple days and you all seem pretty cool so I thought I would go ahead and introduce myself.

I just suffered my 3rd loss (the last ones were 5 and 9 years ago) this past weekend after a surprise pregnancy that I was really happy about. We were so happy about it that we've decided to TTC after the Dr gives us the thumbs up (1 cycle, hopefully "back on the horse" in February).

Thanks for taking the time to read and I hope to get to know lots of you soon! 


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My Chart
TTA while I focus on being the healthiest me I can be and living out my Roller Derby dreams
Surprise BFP 11/13/10 -- MC 12/26/10
Chem Preg and D&C in 2005
MC in 2001

Re: Time for an Intro

  • I'm so sorry for your losses.  Welcome to the board!  I hope you get your BFP early in 2011!
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • Hi and welcome, I hope your stay is short and sweet!! Smile
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    bfp 11/19/10 Born 07/24/11 via C/S

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  • Welcome to the board. I'm sorry for your loss.
    m/c 7/17/10
    Dx: MFI- 3% morph
    IUIs: Gonal-F + Ovidrel + b2b IUI= BFNs
    IVF with ICSI= BFP! EDD 11/25/11
    3/18- Beta #1 452! 3/20- Beta #2 1,026!! 3/27- First u/s- TWINS!
    Our twin boys arrived at 36w5d due to IUGR and a growth discordance

    FET: Medicated FET moved up to 5/23 due to ovulation
    Transferred a 6BB hatched blastocyst- genetically normal female embryo
    BFP! 5/28- 5dp6dt      
    6/1 Beta #1- 223! 6/3 Beta #2- 567!

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    Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.
  • Hello, welcome to the board! 

    I'm am very sorry for your losses. 

  • Thank you and you too! Especially the b-day BFP.

    My bday is in Jan too and it would have been the start of my 2nd trimester. It's a bummer, but honestly if I just get AF around that time I will be super happy!


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    My Chart
    TTA while I focus on being the healthiest me I can be and living out my Roller Derby dreams
    Surprise BFP 11/13/10 -- MC 12/26/10
    Chem Preg and D&C in 2005
    MC in 2001
  • I am sorry for your losses welcome to the board
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    Baby A born via c-section 1/10/12 @38w3d
    BFP #1 11/4/09 m/c 4w3d baby crab
    BFP #2 12/4/09 m/c 9w3d baby lion
    BFP #3 7/1/10 m/c 4w1d baby fish
    BFP #4 5/8/11
    BFP #5 8/17/12 10dpo beta 7
  • I am so sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board. These ladies are incredibly supportive and informative. I hope your stay here is short and sweet!
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  • We're not as mean and snarky as the board the last few days has led us to be...those people were just being dumb. 

    Welcome to the board, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss.

    We have a blog here at TTCAL that is in my signature, be sure to read through it, especially the for newbies section, and you can avoid drama and get support and give support to these lovely women.

    I hope your stay is short and sweet with us :) 

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  • I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board though.


    BFP#1 {Cashew} - 9.19.09 EDD 5.26.10
    The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

  • Thanks and I did read through the blog. I don't want to make any first day faux pas and I promise not to ask someone to rub their magic genie lamp to see if there might be triplets in my uterus... or start any posts with BFP?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! unless its sarcasm, which I'm fond of ;)

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    My Chart
    TTA while I focus on being the healthiest me I can be and living out my Roller Derby dreams
    Surprise BFP 11/13/10 -- MC 12/26/10
    Chem Preg and D&C in 2005
    MC in 2001
  • Welcome and I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you find lots of support here!!! It's a great way to work through these dark days!
    BFP #1 6/18/10 Saw HB 7/15/10 Missed M/C 8/17/10 @ 12 weeks 2 days- 2 D&C's( 8/20 and 8/26) BFP#2 11/21/10 Nonviable at 5wks, possible ectopic. Methotrexate 12/3/10&12/9/10 BFP#3 3/10/11 Beta@12dpo 39 Beta@14dpo 160! 21 DPO 2439 HB at 7wks 127 EDD 11/17/11
    ITS A BOY!!!! Born 11/13/11 BFP #4: 10/29/12 edd 7/11/12
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  • I am sorry about your losses. Welcome to the board. 
  • So sorry for your loss :(
    Hope you find comfort here.

    Married August 20th, 2005 to the love of my life.

    1st BFP August 6th, 2010. Missed MC discovered at 13 weeks. 

    2nd BFP January 5th, 2011. Beautiful Harper born September 28th, 2011.

    3rd BFP March 15th, 2013. Treated with methotrexate for ectopic pg at 7 weeks.

    4th BFP August 2nd, 2013. Sweet Micah born sleeping at 21 weeks with full T13. 5th BFP July 1st, 2014. Praying for a healthy, full term rainbow!

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    Thank you and you too! Especially the b-day BFP.

    My bday is in Jan too and it would have been the start of my 2nd trimester. It's a bummer, but honestly if I just get AF around that time I will be super happy!

    Yeah, I counted out the mile markers in advance too.  I would've been exactly 20 weeks on my birthday in January, so I was really excited about finding out the gender for my birthday.  If I have a BFP by my b-day, that should make it sting a lot less.  A February BFP is good too though.  I hope AF comes soon for you!

    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

  • Welcome and I am sorry for your loss.. I am new here as well, I hope we are only here for a little while. Best wishes!

    Camryn Nicole born 08/24/04 Dillon Joe born 10/24/07 m/c 06/21/2009 m/c 11/29/2010
    BFP!! 06/14/2011

    "Where hope grows, miracles blossom"
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  • I'm so sorry for your losses.  Welcome to the board.  We have the thumbs up to go ahead in Feb as well.  Hope you get your BFP!
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  • imagePolyMama2Be:
    Thanks and I did read through the blog. I don't want to make any first day faux pas and I promise not to ask someone to rub their magic genie lamp to see if there might be triplets in my uterus... or start any posts with BFP?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! unless its sarcasm, which I'm fond of ;)

    Wish someone could wave that wand and give me my triplets back.

    Welcome to the board. Hope you find comfort here.

  • Welcome. I'm sorry for your losses.
  • Welcome to the board. So sorry for your loss. Isn't it sad how excited we get for that first AF?! I hope she arrives for you in Jan - Happy Birthday to You! And then a BFP in Feb - GL:!
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  • Welcome!  I am so sorry for your losses.  I hope your stay here is short!
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
    Too beautiful for this earth
    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
  • Welcome. I am so sorry for your losses.
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    BFP#1 5.27.10 DS became an angel at 21 weeks on 9.22.10
    BFP#2 4.16.11 Healthy baby girl born 12.14.11
    BFP#3 9.3.12 A healthy, bouncing baby SISTER on the way! EDD 5.12.13

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  • Welcome to the board!  I'm so very sorry for your losses. 
    5/16/2005: M/C at 7 wks
    5/3/2010: MM/C at 7 wks 6 days
    5/25/2014: CP at 4 wks 3 days

    Because of the great "Snow"vember of 2015, my medicated cycle was cancelled.  However, we were blessed with our little rainbow baby due on 8/14/15!  Baby J had other plans and decided to make his grand ole entrance on 7/4/2015!

    Surprise!  Our little girl entered this world on 12/8/2016 after her eviction notice was long past due.  Our little turkey baby turned into a snow baby!  

                                                        
    Third times the charm!  BFP on 4/18/2019, EDD: 12/18/2019
    PgAL/PAL welcome
    PAIF/SAIF welcome too!

  • Thank you all for the very warm welcome... it's truly, truly appreciated.

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    My Chart
    TTA while I focus on being the healthiest me I can be and living out my Roller Derby dreams
    Surprise BFP 11/13/10 -- MC 12/26/10
    Chem Preg and D&C in 2005
    MC in 2001
  • Welcome to the board. I'm so sorry for your losses. The women on this board are absolutely amazing.
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  • I am so very sorry for your losses - welcome to the board.
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  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome! The ladies here are awesome as you will soon discover :)
    Natural MCs 2/4/09, 8/22/09 & 4/7/10
    Dx with Antiphospholipid Antibody Syndrome (APS)
    BFP #4 5/14/12
    5/17/12...1st Betas- 176, P4 3.6
    5/22/12...2nd Betas- 207, P4 6.1 (MC confirmed)
  • I am very sorry for your losses.  Welcome to the board - you are right, the ladies here are very cool.  I hope that your stay here is short and sweet!

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  • so sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the TTCAL board.

    BFP#1: 7/14/10.  EDD: 3/19/11--MMC-- D&C 9/2/10.
    BFP#2: 12:22/10.EDD: 8/30/11 C/P 12/25/10
    BFP#3: 10/26/11 EDD: 7/2/12-- Daniel born 7/14/12. My rainbow baby!                                                                                                                                           BFP #4:  2.22/15 EDD: 11/4/15 C/P 2/28/15                                                                                                                                                                                      BFP #5:  4/5/15   EDD 12/11/15 (Ectopic Pregnancy)

    BFP #6: 3/2/16 EDD 11/5/16
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  • Very sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board!
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    BFP#1 - 8/27/10 - D&C 10/27/10 @ 13 weeks to Trisomy 18
    Missing our Angel Baby Gabriel
    BFP#2 - 3/18/11 - CP 3/19/11 BFP#3 - 4/27/11 - Due 1/9/12
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