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F/U to my previous post re: screaming

If y'all saw my post this morning about all of the kids in the waiting room at the RE...well, this was the final straw...

The couple that  had the 6 month old and had *just* found out they were expecting again...the couple that told the whole WAITING room full of women waiting at the Reproductive Endocrinologist's office that they are pregnant, also announced to everyone after their appointment, you know, after they got to see their second baby on an ultrasound, that this baby didn't "require" any treatments...they weren't even trying.

Seriously? SERIOUSLY?!? 

What a b*tch. 

I was LIVID. 

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Re: F/U to my previous post re: screaming

  • WTF are people thinking? I'm really suprised you help your composure because I don't think I would have been able too. I'm not one to speak out, but had I heard that I would have gone the flip off! I'm so sorry you had to be around that hun. Did you say anything to the RE's office?
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  • Some people are self involved twats.
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  • Classy! 

    ::rolls eyes::

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  • Ugh, I am so upset for you! I'm so sorry you had to hear/deal with that.

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  • imagebbakersgirl75:
    WTF are people thinking? I'm really suprised you help your composure because I don't think I would have been able too. I'm not one to speak out, but had I heard that I would have gone the flip off! I'm so sorry you had to be around that hun. Did you say anything to the RE's office?

    When I was called back I gave the receptionist (who is the absolutely sweetest, most wonderful girl ever) a "look" and just quietly said "whoa" and when I was done and went to check out she apologized and said that they were just so swamped this morning and had a couple of emergency appointments come up and things got out of control. 

    I just hope that stupid girl moves on to her OB soon so I don't ever have to see her again. 

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  • wow...I don't even have to words for that. sorry hon!
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  • imageEdwina.McDunnough:
    Some people are self involved twats.

    Couldn't have said it better myself! 

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  • imageEdwina.McDunnough:
    Some people are self involved twats.

    Couldn't have said it better myself! 

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    IUI #1 & 1.2 canceled
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  • OMG, it would've taken all my strength not to smack her. I am livid too and I wasn't even there. Unbelievable. 
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  • annoying, annoying!! no words!
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  • imageEdwina.McDunnough:
    Some people are self involved twats.

    THIS! 

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  • imageEdwina.McDunnough:
    Some people are self involved twats.

    Yep!

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  • Unbelievable!
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  • So sorry you had to deal with that. Since they didn't require any treatments why didn't she just got to her ob instead of sharing with the waiting room.

    Jenn

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  • very ....just very...insensitive.   i think the RE office personnel should have said something to her.

    sorry you had to experience that...

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  • Wow. People never cease to amaze me. Sorry you had to deal with that.
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  • People are rude and insensitive...it is hard to be strong when you are hurt.  It sounds like you were very brave.
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  • wow!  how do people forget what it is like to go through IF??  She should have known better than to act like that.
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  • really?!  how incredibly insensitive!!  I couldn't have imagined!  sorry you had to deal with that!

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  • imageEdwina.McDunnough:
    Some people are self involved twats.

    ^^ this^^

    who does that.

    really?!

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  • That is absolutely ridiculous. I'm bothered enough when they just disregard the rules and bring them in quietly, let alone making a big deal to announce your surprise bfp to a room of women who may never get one at all? Douche. Was this in B'ham or Montgomery? I'm in B'ham right now and there's a woman with a toddler in a stroller... thankfully they just took her back. A woman literally just walked in with a 5 year old! WTF?!
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