An apology

jennype · December 2010

Girls,

I'm sorry for being so down lately. I'm scared and this is the only place I feel I have to let it out. Thanks for all of your support. Some of you have been thru really tough times and you stay so strong.

~HopeAndFaith~ · December 2010

I don't believe there is any need to apologize. IF is a very difficult burden to carry and it isn't easy for anyone. Some days are better than other, but for the most part you just keep pressin' on.

I know the fear you feel and I'm glad that there is a place to get some advice, support, or just lurk and see how others are coping with things.

Good luck to you in the coming year. I do hope great things happen for you.

EDIT: I just looked at your siggy and it looks like great things are already happening! You're expecting! That's some great stuff going on. Enjoy it!

Bella2u07 · December 2010

I would be scared too, no apology needed. Vent away, we are here for you!

Sending you tons of doubling, tripling beta dust!!!! (((hugs)))

zdinakwardwedding · December 2010

No Apologies necessary. This is where you can let it out. Stress and holding it in doesnt help. Hoping for a huge 3rd beta for you

madelyn07 · December 2010

No need to apologize. I know it is very stressful, scary and overwhelming.

Just try to relax, breath and enjoy the fact that you are pregnant. That's good for both you and your baby.

lovemygs · December 2010

That's what we're here for, girl! I can only imagine the anxiety you're feeling right now ---- just try to relax and enjoy as much of this time as you can.

patchen30 · December 2010

Don't apologize - it's really, really hard. I too feel that this is one of the only places I can vent. I hope you can do that here w/o judgement.

Jlynn3 · December 2010

No apology needed. That's what this board is for - to vent, to cry, to lean, and to celebrate whenever we can.

Sending lots of beta dust your way!

M&MBride0506 · December 2010

Don't apologize. This is what this board is for. IF really sucks and most of the time there is no other place to let out your vents, here is that special place for you, me and everyone of us.

Sending you doubling dust....

JM1977 · December 2010

I agree - no need to apologize. You can be both thankful for being pregnant and scared to death at the same time. It's like IF trains us to be fearful and cautious, and it's difficult to get over that. I hope you will continue to share what you're really feeling - that's what we're here for!

gervaisj6 · December 2010

don't even go there! I always think about the song- Lean on me- when I come to this board...we are here to be the "leaner" or the "leanee" LOL ; ) and both sometimes...

(((HUGS!)))

gervaisj6 · December 2010

don't even go there! I always think about the song- Lean on me- when I come to this board...we are here to be the "leaner" or the "leanee" LOL ; )

(((HUGS!)))

babylove0511 · December 2010

dont apologize, IF takes away so much from us. the worse thing is that it takes away the joy of a positive beta. i am sure the worrying never stops. huge ((HUGS)) you are pregnant and enjoy it, you have a LO in that belly =-)

cbubbles2 · December 2010

No need to apologize! That's what we're here for! Sending you lots of doubling dust for your next beta!

tinkerbelle · December 2010

Just saw the update on your siggy. That is wonderful news! And please know that we are here for you. IF is a such an emotional rollercoaster, it's helpful to have a "safety net", like this board, where you can let your guard down.

Jenny952 · December 2010

That's what where all here for... don't feel bad about venting. I don't have anyone IRL who knows about our IF but my husband, so it's nice to have people here who are going through the same thing, feeling the same feelings, and having the same frustrations.

vanessagorc · December 2010

Its all very hard and stressful. I just let myself feel however I felt. I couldn't be positive the whole time. I was very miserable a lot of the time. It worked for me, but poor DH lol. Hugs for ur stress and good luck w ur beta!

lilredj · December 2010

No apologize needed!! We are very lucky to have a place that we can come and talk to other people who are going through the same things each one of us is going through!!