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Why is IF making me hate NYE?

M&MBride0506M&MBride0506
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I get why I'm sad on Thanksgiving and Christmas Eve and Day but why New Year's Eve?  NYE is supposed to be about partying and stuff like that but I just can't help thinking that it's yet another new year with no new baby...Sorry to invite you to my pity party and I'm trying to be happy because we have another cycle starting in January but..IF is stealing my NYE from me!!!

 

I hate you IF!!!!

Thanks for letting me vent!

My Wonderful Sister is my GC!!!! 3 IUIs, 2 unmedicated, 1 50mg of Clomid = All BFNs Next step IVF!!!! Melinda & Michael 5*6*06 God Bless The Broken Road
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Re: Why is IF making me hate NYE?

  • jehnmjehnm

    For me it's because all my friends with kids aren't doing anything and that makes me sad because I don't have any kids of my own to worry about!  I'm just trying to look forward to a new year and hopefully being one step closer to having a child.  Although this year I'm not even allowing myself to think that by next Christmas I'll have a baby.  I've done that too many years now and realize, that's not exactly how it works! 

    I share your feelings and hope we both have good news soon!

    TTC #1 since 12/07 SA 9/08=borderline normal HSG 1/09 found R tube blocked Multiple IUIs both with oral and injectible drugs from 2/09-2/11 Started domestic adoption process in 5/10, homestudy complete 9/10 Failed adoption after home with baby for 2 weeks 11/10 Blessed through the miracle of private adoption with a son, born 6/6/11 (his grandma's bday) 7lbs 9oz 20.5 inches long! So worth the wait!
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  • Mrs.AmandaMqnMrs.AmandaMqn

    vent away! IF sucks and it casts such a shadow over all the holidays for me. Easter makes me want to stab people and I'm already dreading it.

     ::hugs:: I hope 2011 is a great year for us all

    TTC since April 2008

    Me: PCOS/Amenorrhea DH: Azoospermia due to Y Chromosome Micro Deletion IVF w/ ICSI on hold until further notice

    Hope

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  • Jenny952Jenny952 member
    I think any major holiday/milestone makes me sad anymore.  NYE just reminds me that another year has gone by and still no family.  I agree with pp... let's make 2011 our year!!
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  • butterfly843butterfly843

    New Years always makes me a little sad because of the same reason you stated and also because New Years Day is dh's bday and I feel bad that I haven't been able to give him a baby yet.

    Jenn

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  • so1966so1966

    i am right there with you!  i've had moments of sadness already as NYE is approaching.  yes, yet another year for many of us without our baby dreams becoming a reality.

     hang in there and wish you a happier 2011!...

    After 7 years of marriage and 5 unsuccessful IVFs, we have been granted the gift of adopting a baby boy, born 4/21/11.
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  • MSaksaMSaksa member
    I agree with others...for me its because a lot of our friends aren't doing much because of their kids. Also, NYE I will have my "official" BFN. I'll be glad to start 2011!  Hang in there honey!
    Dx Anovulatory PCOS Clomid,Ovidrel,TI=BFN IUI#1-#3 Femara,Ovidrel=BFN IUI#4-Gonal F,Ovidrel=BFN IUI#5-Gonal F,Ovidrel= BFP!! Beta #1 11dpIUI=34, Beta #2=131,first u/s 3/14=1 perfect bug with a heartbeat! Anderson Phillip, Born 11/2/11 7lbs 10oz 21in. Image and video hosting by TinyPic Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • HarperMHarperM

    Uggggh I feel your pain! And the others are right- just another reminder that another year has gone by and no baby!

     

    I'm choosing to look at it like this (as positive as I can!)- 2010 was the WORST year for me. As I am sure it was for you in the IF ways! Years of trying, months of crying over getting my period each time, finally doing IVF, then miscarrying... as I am sure you all also have some heartfelt stories as well! So I am getting myself excited that 2010 is OVER! See ya 2010, won't be missing you!

    And whether or not 2011 gives me what I am hoping for, at least I can have faith that it will, a fresh year, 12 months of possibilities. 

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