Support For All You Awesome Ladies

blondie2167 · December 2010

Hi Ladies.. I am new here and I have realized that I have been welcomed and supported by you all and I wanted to tell you how much I appreciate it. Expiriencing a loss of any kind is devastating, and we have all felt and are feeling that loss still. You are all strong and amazing women for having the courage to continue to keep trying and have hope in your hearts. I have read many blogs and your stories are touching and I admire you all for sharing them. The day I found out I was pregnant I felt I had a purpose in my life and when I lost the baby I lost that purpose and I pray that we will all find that purpose again, and that we will all find peace with whatever the future holds, because I believe that every women who has this much devotion to having a child deserves to be a mother. Someone told me after they heard of my loss that everything happens for a reason, and I find this saying to be the furthest thing from the truth and very hurtfull, losing a baby has no reason and there is no answer for why, it just is and the only thing that matters is what we all choose to do after, and thats remember and move forward. So to all of you I have prayed and continue to pray that we all are blessed with bringing a healthy life into this world and nurturing that life for years to come.

allybaby85 · December 2010

Your post totally made me cry. I have been a sobbing mess all day, I guess AF is on her way. I really do

myaddiwaddi06 · December 2010

This is an amazing post! Everything is right on and so true. These women are the strongest I have ever met. I feel priveledged to be among them. They didn't have to welcome with open arms but they did. I don't know where I would be without them. There really isn't any one in my real life that gets it at all. Wow now I am tearing up. Thank you so much for including and supporting me!!

emeraudecephiro · December 2010

*thumbs up* There you go!

What a lovely post, thank you.

lotus88 · December 2010

I agree. Nobody in my life really understands where I'm at the way this board and the miscarriage board seem to. It has really been a life saver. My marriage and work functioning could be in a totally different place if I didn't have this support. Thanks everyone.

JNS023 · December 2010

Aww, I love warm fuzzies! haha Lovely post, glad you decided to join us!

mypeanut12 · December 2010

That was so sweet!!!! It made my day reading that and knowing that all of the ladies on here now exactly how I feel. This is the best support group!!!! Even though I don't post often, just reading what you ladies have to say and seeing all of the hilarious pics you guys post when someone posts that they think they are "preggo" and we have no idea who they are. You guys make my days so much brighter and without yall I dont know where I would be right now!

Tapatio · December 2010

Your post made me tear up! You are so sweet and thoughtful. You worded it so perfectly. I pray that you and all these other wonderful ladies get BFPs

Carolee · December 2010

This is a really sweet post. Thank you! And like you, I hate the saying "everything happens for a reason." There is no reason that we lost our children - it just happened. (((Hugs))) I hope we all get our take-home babies soon!

thewayiam · December 2010

I couldn't have said it better myself.

thewayiam · December 2010

I couldn't have said it better myself.

mizdiz444 · December 2010

smalltowngirl99 · December 2010

I agree! It is so comforting knowing that you can come here anytime for support, when the rest of the world has moved on and when we feel they are tired of hearing it we can come here, I dont know how it is for all the other girls but I still struggle with it everyday and talking about it makes me feel a little better. I find myself here all the time! I might need a bump intervention soon!