Toddlers: 12 - 24 Months

The dilemma of being 25.

I feel like I'm at the age where I can't find cute, stylish clothes that a. fit correctly and b. don't make me look like I just raided the junior's section at a department store.

It's hard to find cute clothes that fit well, last a while, and don't cost me $200 every time I want to find a flattering outfit.I am a young mom, not a frumpy grandma or a tween! Anyone else around my age have this issue? Where do you shop?

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Re: The dilemma of being 25.

  • Well, I'm 28 but sometimes I struggle with this.  I think that you have to just be selective about WHAT you get, rather than where.  Most of my clothes come from TJ Maxx or Ross.  But I still shop in the juniors section.  There's definitely stuff that I shy away from in there though. 

    I just got a bunch of clothes from Forever 21 and I don't think they look too "teeny bopper".  I just make sure to mix and match (like wear my quality designer jeans with the Forever 21 top).  If that all makes sense.

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  • I'm 28 and often have the same problem -- especially since I'm a teacher of teenagers...dont want to dress like them!  I shop at Ann Taylor Loft (they have great sales!), Gap, and Old Navy mostly.
  • Yep, I agree.   I usually have luck at H&M.
  • I tend to spend a lot of money on clothes for myself, but I don't have a lot of them.  I buy dark A pocket 7 jeans and have been hitting up the Gap for tops.

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  • I feel like I have this exact problem.  New York and Company has some cute stylish clothes, but I like having more options.  I love American Eagle for casual clothes, however dh and I had this discussion yesterday, and he told me he feels like I dress like some of his students ( He's a high school teacher)  It's tough.  He can find a great outfit at Eddie Bauer, but I feel like their women's section makes me look like I'm my mom's age, and I'm only 28.  

    I would appreciate some thoughts as well.

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  • Welcome to the club, lol j/k.

    I feel the same way, I don't fit the same clothing that I wore pre-baby or when I was 25. 

    I go to banana republic, express, the limited, guess, nordstrom, anthropologie, etc.. they have some outfits that that don't cost $200, and are not too tight or too frumpy. I like looking into the sales stuff alot though!

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  • I'm 26 and about age 24 is when I really had a hard time finding stuff that was business, young(er) and stylish. I like Charolette Russe, Forever 21 and JCP. Typically the Forever 21 fits me pretty good, Charolette Russe is hit and miss. 

  • For work stuff, I do New York and Co, Old Navy, and Gap.  I still dress like a 16 year old tom boy on the weekends, so its a lot of Pacific Sunwear Embarrassed
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  • Huh. I don't have that problem and I'm 37. Maybe I've moved over to frumpy and don't know it! Stick out tongue I tend to shop at Banana, JCrew, and Gap. And get the occasional splurge Thakoon. Me and Michelle Obama (I wish I were that stylish).
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    I feel like I have this exact problem.  New York and Company has some cute stylish clothes, but I like having more options.  I love American Eagle for casual clothes, however dh and I had this discussion yesterday, and he told me he feels like I dress like some of his students ( He's a high school teacher)  It's tough.  He can find a great outfit at Eddie Bauer, but I feel like their women's section makes me look like I'm my mom's age, and I'm only 28.  

    I would appreciate some thoughts as well.

    This! But DH doesnt teach :)  But I feel the same way..I want to look stylish without looking like an old lady ;)  

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    I'm 28 and often have the same problem -- especially since I'm a teacher of teenagers...dont want to dress like them!  I shop at Ann Taylor Loft (they have great sales!), Gap, and Old Navy mostly.

     did you know you can join their Teacher Appreciation group and get 15% off everything in the store? It works for Ann Taylor also

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    Well, I'm 28 but sometimes I struggle with this.  I think that you have to just be selective about WHAT you get, rather than where.  Most of my clothes come from TJ Maxx or Ross.  But I still shop in the juniors section.  There's definitely stuff that I shy away from in there though. 

    I just got a bunch of clothes from Forever 21 and I don't think they look too "teeny bopper".  I just make sure to mix and match (like wear my quality designer jeans with the Forever 21 top).  If that all makes sense.

    Ditto everything except that I am 31 and not 28 Big Smile.   Ross and F21 are my go-to places.  I pair less expensive tops with designer denim and ballet flats.  I also tend to go with more classic accessories.

     

     

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    Well, I'm 28 but sometimes I struggle with this.  I think that you have to just be selective about WHAT you get, rather than where.  Most of my clothes come from TJ Maxx or Ross.  But I still shop in the juniors section.  There's definitely stuff that I shy away from in there though. 

    I just got a bunch of clothes from Forever 21 and I don't think they look too "teeny bopper".  I just make sure to mix and match (like wear my quality designer jeans with the Forever 21 top).  If that all makes sense.

    Ditto everything except that I am 31 and not 28 Big Smile.   Ross and F21 are my go-to places.  I pair less expensive tops with designer denim and ballet flats.  I also tend to go with more classic accessories.

     

     

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  • At 25 I think I shopped mostly at The Limited, Express, those kinds of stores. I still like those stores but I don't like spending that much money now. My new love is NY&Co - their clothes didn't fit me well pre-baby but they are great for my mom body, LOL.
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  • I have the same problem, hence, practically my entire wardrobe is Old Navy.
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  • I mainly shop at JCP (by far my #1 store), Ann Taylor loft, Banana R., J Crew, NY&Co.

    I think AE and such stopped fitting me well around 22-23.....certainly not post-kids.  Their stuff is just too 'young'. I NEVER EVER shop junior's sections either, they don't fit a 'mom' body well and I just look like mutton dressed as lamb.

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  • I'll be 40 in 4 months and I have the same problem.  It's not just reserved for 20-somethings.
  • TJMaxx or Marshalls are great places to fin cute clothes, and if you have one nearby New York & Company have some great things too. 

    What I like best about those stores is they have accessories and shoes within the store to match to their clothing line. 

  • This is a huge problem for me.

    sigh.

    With my job & clientele, I have to dress older & conservative.  But I HATE looking like I'm 40 & not 27.  Most of my work wardrobe is from Talbots or Ann Taylor.  I have a few cardigans & slacks from NY&Co.

    Weekend stuff -- mostly jeans & button-down shirts & cardigans.

  • I'm 23 and look young, so I totally understand where you are coming from.  I try my best not to look like I could be on 16 & Pregnant!

    Most of my clothes come from Nordstrom, Express, Banana Republic, and Macy's.  If you are trying not to keep costs down definitely check out a Nordstrom Rack if they have one nearby.  You can get awesome designer jeans, tops, shoes, etc. at a good discount.

    For those of you shopping at F21, what the heck do you find there???  Everytime I walk by it's busting at the seams with 13 year olds, so I don't even bother going in.  If it's worth it let me know!!!

  • I shop at Gap a lot now, but I'm 29!  I don't know if you're looking for work clothes or every day clothes though.   
  • Thanks for all of your ideas, ladies. Good to know I'm not alone! I also didn't mean to exclude anyone older or younger...  I wish everyone with this issue had the chance to go on a makeover show! And no offense to people who do still shop in the junior's section. There are occasionally some good buys there and I know some people are tiny enough to fit in those sizes, but it's not me! LOL. :)
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  • Haha, I agree....I'm 26 and I think it's kind of hard to find cute stuff without looking "too old" or "too young." Some of my favorite stores are Charlotte Russe and H&M. I'm a huge fan of Old Navy too.
  • Really??   I guess there is a big difference in how a 25 year old views fashion today and how a 40 year old (me) sees it.  To me, I think women in their 20s and 30s have it easier.  All the fashion forward clothes are more appropriate for your age, IMO.  I tend to buy most of my clothes from Ann Taylor Loft nowadays because the stuff I like at Old Navy just seems to young for me. 

    As long as you don't shop in the Juniors (odd sizes) department at this point, you have endless options. 

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  • I'm 26 and I shop mostly at Express, Maurices, Marshalls/TJ Maxx.  Sometimes I find decent stuff at Old Navy, Kohls, AE.

    My bigger problem is finding something to wear that isn't work clothes and isn't pajamas.  I have tons of dressy clothes for when I was working and a lot of workout/lounging clothes, but I'm trying to build up my casual clothes.  I never know what to wear just for everyday.

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