Hey ladies! So DH and I are doing IVF in Jan. Starting injections Jan 15th. We are trying to make a decision about whether to do ICSI or not. It would be an extra $2,000. We are not very wealthy... $2000 is a lot of money I think for anyone to be added on to the price of IVF. We talked to the doctor and he was kinda like "whatever" you want to do but he did say that he didnt think it was necessary... but then goes to say that it would probably give us more fertilized eggs. What do you guys think? We are so back and forth on it!
Re: ICSI Advise
I think if it would mean the difference between a 3 day and a 5 day it would be worth it. Or if it meant you had frosties or not, it would be worth it. While the $2000 is really expensive-if you didn't have a lot fertilize and had to do it all over again the cost would be larger in the long run.
If it were me-I'd do it. I'd want to know that I did everything I could to make it work.
We did not all three times because:
You have until your ER to make the decision, so if it looks like you're responding well and will likely have a good amount of mature follicles at retrieval and no MF, I'd save the money. If you are doing one cycle, and one cycle only, or otherwise want to do everything you can to maximize your outcome, I'd spend the extra.
GL with your decision.
Ditto! To everything, especially the statement in bold.
7 IUIs = All BFNs
2011: March IVF #1.2 = e/p @ 6w: May IVF #2 = BFN: July sFET #1 = BFN
2012: Jan We're Certified FC/A Parents
May IVF #3 = c/p
June-Nov Foster Mommy to M (Toddler)
July FET #2 = BFN
Aug FET #3 = BFN
Sept-Nov Foster Mommy to Baby Bella (Newborn)
Nov HSG/Sono = Clear!
Dec FET #4 = BFN
2013: Feb FET #5 = m/c @ 6.5w
May-July Foster Mom to H (8 yr old girl)
June/July/Aug IVF #4 = Freeze All
July = Unofficially Adopting T (10 yr old boy)
Sept FET #6 = TBD
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We are doing ICSI...we are already putting so much into this IVF (financially, emotionally, ect.) that I'd hate to leave any stone unturned, kwim? I want to give it everything we have.
Our RE absolutely recommended it for us even though we don't have sperm issues (DH did have low morph before his repair surgery but his morph is perfect now and he's always had good count and motility).
TI, IUIs, IVF = c/ps and BFNs
After 2+ years and multiple treatment cycles,
including an IVF vacation in Costa Rica/Panama,
IVF #2 brought us our miracle baby!
Surprise! Baby Boy is on the way!
I agree. We did it and got pregnant (even though I miscarried), and had frosties. I would have wondered "what if" if we hadn't I think. I know $2000 is ALOT of money, especially when you are already spending so much. Hope you guys can come to a decision you are happiest with xo
Same here!
TTC since 2008 dx PCOS & MFI
Clomid/Femara no "O"
IVF #1 BFN
FET #1 cancelled for biopsy
FET #1.2 c/p, July 2012 c/p
IUI #1 & 1.2 canceled
IVF #2 ER 12/1, Freeze all due to OHSS
FET #2.1 cancelled due to DVT risk, FET #2.2 Jan 2013
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same...if you are spending all that money to begin with, just spend a little more for peace for mind to know that you did everything you could so you wont have the "what ifs"
TTC since July 2008
IUI 1,2,3 BFN
IVF #1 C/P, FET 1,2,3 BFN
IVF#2 BFP
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