i'm 22yrs old been married 2 months - DH and i have been ttc since july 09. i was diagnosed with relapsing remitting Multiple sclerosis in feb of 09 - began treatment in march 09 - stopped treatment july 10' i've never had a "normal" cycle - varying from no AF for up to 13 months to having AF for 30-60days straight. i have always wanted children, and i'm starting to get really depressed about the lack of progress on the baby-making-plan... does anyone understand where i'm coming from? on any level? am i making to much out of this? i just dont know what to do from here.
Re: TTC - have M.S. off meds - now what
BFP 1/18/11, EDD 10/1/11. Born at 37w5d on 9/15/11.
***BFP Chart***
"There will come a time when you believe everything is finished. That will be the beginning.
"Even miracles take a little time"
Hi. I also have MS. I am on Copaxone, and after a lot of research and consultation with my OB and Neuro, I have decided to stay on it while TTC, and stop when I get a BFP. But, if you are taking Avonex or another interferon, I see why you would have to stop treatment when TTC (although you say that you began TTC in July 09 and went off treatment a year later...).
I would call your OB to make sure you and DH don't have any underlying fertility issues. While it can take a "normal" couple up to a year to conceive, you are under a somewhat restricted time line bc you are off your meds. Hang in there and GL!
the decision to go off treatment was a hard one - i was diagnosed in less than 60 days from symptom 1 to neurologist conformation - the whole ordeal has had me on a rollercoaster of emotional ups and downs -i said that my DH and i "started" ttc in july 09.. but we weren't preventing it either - and we have been together since october 08.
its just gotten so frustrating- every time i would skip a period i would wonder if i were pg - sometimes i would test but as the months wore on i tested less - then i stopped testing - figuring that if i skip 2 AF's then i'd test - i've been on prenatal vitamins for the past 3 years now - simply because if i ever DID get pregnant i probably wouldnt know until i felt the baby move. (simply because i have such irregular visits from AF) - but lately i just feel like its a wasted effort. more than half the chicks i went to school with are either pregnant - had a child by now - or on their 2nd... i know that sounds sooo horrible - like i just want to copy everyone else - and maybe i am a little jealous that everyone seems to have a working uterus but me.... but i still cant shake the feeling that i was meant to have kids. maybe thats just the boilogical clock speaking... but still...:(