So on Christmas we show up at MILs house with the boys in Big Brother shirts. Mil and BIL didnt notice. They noticed the shirts but didnt get it. So finally after all the gifts are open and MIL has been clicking away with her camera I tell her "I have to ask you not to share the pictures you took this morning with anyone just yet" She asks why and I tell her because of the boys shirts. She goes "oh really. how far along?" Then asks if we can even afford another child. Yep swear.
Later FIL comes over. He reads the shirts outloud. But doesnt say anything. So DH points out that both boys will be big brothers. He ask when I am due. I tell him the end of Aug. and that it is a secret for now. To which he replies "Oh so you are really early. Are you sure you are really pregnant?"
Yeah they totally ruined the surprise with their lack of support/ emotion.