did any of your husbands have a hard time adjusting to having 2 kids so close in age? when ds#1 was born, dh never got frustrated when he cried, he was on top of everything, and very helpful for both me and ds. Now that ds#2 is here. Dh gets frustrated very easy when he cries, and even with ds#1 hes started to get frustrated with him. I feel like I have to constantly be taking over with the both of them. Im dealing with some ppd, but its getting put on the back burner, because i have to hold it together because i dont feel like i can depend on dh now like i did when we just had one kid. I dont want to make it sound like dh isnt a good dad, because he really is. Its just hes having a hard time adjusting. any tips of what i can do to help dh get better adjusted to two kids 2 years apart??
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