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Poll: How long have you have been married?

dolphinsmakemesmiledolphinsmakemesmile
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Because it is a blizzard here, I decided to do a poll. Hope I did this right:)[Poll]
*SAIF* always welcome
TTC since October 2007
Dx with Unexplained IF
IUI #1-3 w/clomid: Jan-March 2010...BFN
IUI #4 w/injectables: April 2010...BFP
1st u/s: 5/17-one little perfect hb@7w2d, 2nd u/s: 6/5-no hb@10w;
missed miscarriage: 6/10 d&c
IUI #5-7 w/injectables: Sept 2010-Jan 2011...BFFN
IVF #1: Feb/March 2011...pretty please let this work!!!!

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Re: Poll: How long have you have been married?

  • illinigalillinigal member
    I've been married 3.5 years... what do I check for that?
    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
    **P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • LuckynTiggerLuckynTigger
    I will be married 4 yrs in March
    image TTC with PCOS since Feb. 07. Currently on a break to save $$ for IUI. Searching for My Mini M&M
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  • dolphinsmakemesmiledolphinsmakemesmile
    Sorry girls. This poll thing was new to me-haha. I guess just round. I know I was thinking the same thing. In March, we'll be married 8 years. I just put 7 down. Wow, now that I'm writing it, I can't believe I've married almost 8 years!!!It's funny. I got married at 23 and DH was 28. One of the benefits was that we thought we could wait to try to start a family. In the beginning, we used birth control and condoms!! So there would be no accidents. Gave up the condoms pretty quickly though. Once we neared the 5 year mark, we thought we wouldn't try but wouldn't prevent. Never thought I'd be here! Why didn't we start sooner???? UUGGHH!!
    *SAIF* always welcome
    TTC since October 2007
    Dx with Unexplained IF
    IUI #1-3 w/clomid: Jan-March 2010...BFN
    IUI #4 w/injectables: April 2010...BFP
    1st u/s: 5/17-one little perfect hb@7w2d, 2nd u/s: 6/5-no hb@10w;
    missed miscarriage: 6/10 d&c
    IUI #5-7 w/injectables: Sept 2010-Jan 2011...BFFN
    IVF #1: Feb/March 2011...pretty please let this work!!!!

    Expecting twin boys!!!!! Pregnancy Ticker
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  • illinigalillinigal member

    That's okay... I figured I should round.  Sorry to hear that you put off TTC thinking you had time.  I wish we would've ditched BCP sooner too, but hindsight is 20-20 unfortunately.

    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
    **P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • thebeadingladythebeadinglady

    imagedolphinsmakemesmile:
    Sorry girls. This poll thing was new to me-haha. I guess just round. I know I was thinking the same thing. In March, we'll be married 8 years. I just put 7 down. Wow, now that I'm writing it, I can't believe I've married almost 8 years!!!It's funny. I got married at 23 and DH was 28. One of the benefits was that we thought we could wait to try to start a family. In the beginning, we used birth control and condoms!! So there would be no accidents. Gave up the condoms pretty quickly though. Once we neared the 5 year mark, we thought we wouldn't try but wouldn't prevent. Never thought I'd be here! Why didn't we start sooner???? UUGGHH!!

    If it makes you feel better I think everyone has that thought at some point, no matter how long you have been married. We have been married for 2 years and 2 months and I keep thinking 'why didn't we start trying when we first moved in together (after 6 months of dating)'

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  • baloneydiscbaloneydisc member
    It will be 12-years in about a week. I really wish we had started trying sooner.
    Lilypie Third Birthday tickers
    Married 1/2/99.
    TTC since 4/09.
    Diagnosed PCOS. Diagnosed Hypothryoid 11/09.
    SHG & SA normal. PCOS Research study started 5/10.
    Clomid/Femara cycle #1 - 6/10 = BFN
    Clomid/Femara cycle #2 - 7/10 = BFP #1 - Missed miscarriage 9/2/10
    11/12 - BFP #2 - 11/22 - m/c
    5/1/11 - BFP #3 - Pre-eclampsia, IUGR & bed rest from 32w. DD born via induction 1/4/12.
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  • babylove0511babylove0511 member
    we will be 3 years on Jan4th. i wish i never got on the pill =(
    ::PAIF/SAIF Welcome::

    TTC since July 2008
    IUI 1,2,3 BFN
    IVF #1 C/P, FET 1,2,3 BFN
    IVF#2 BFP

    it's a girl!!

    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
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  • madelyn07madelyn07 member
    It was 3 years in August.
    TTC #1 since June 2008 *SAIFW*

    TI, IUIs, IVF = c/ps and BFNs

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  • SeptemberBride'08SeptemberBride'08 member
    We are at 2.5 years but we've been together exclusively for 10 years in May. :o) I'm pretty proud of that so I like to make sure people know! haha
    Took 2 years & 8 months to make our baby! Lilypie First Birthday tickers
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  • scooterqscooterq member
    imagethebeadinglady:

    imagedolphinsmakemesmile:
    Sorry girls. This poll thing was new to me-haha. I guess just round. I know I was thinking the same thing. In March, we'll be married 8 years. I just put 7 down. Wow, now that I'm writing it, I can't believe I've married almost 8 years!!!It's funny. I got married at 23 and DH was 28. One of the benefits was that we thought we could wait to try to start a family. In the beginning, we used birth control and condoms!! So there would be no accidents. Gave up the condoms pretty quickly though. Once we neared the 5 year mark, we thought we wouldn't try but wouldn't prevent. Never thought I'd be here! Why didn't we start sooner???? UUGGHH!!

    If it makes you feel better I think everyone has that thought at some point, no matter how long you have been married. We have been married for 2 years and 2 months and I keep thinking 'why didn't we start trying when we first moved in together (after 6 months of dating)'

    This!  We start TTC as soon as we got married, but I now wish we had gotten married sooner and started TTC earlier.  We dated for about 8 years and wanted to finish college and grad school before getting married.  Now that seems asinine and I wish we had just gotten married after college and started TTC during grad schoo.  But like PP said hindsight is 20/20.

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  • Mr. & Mrs. WoodtickMr. & Mrs. Woodtick member

     

    We have been married 5 years.  

    imagebabylove0511:

    we will be 3 years on Jan4th. i wish i never got on the pill =(

    and I feel the same way. We have decided that even after we finally have our baby, we won't use BCP again.


    After 4 years, 3 failed IUIs and 2 failed IVFs our surprise miracle is here!
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    My Blog

    TTC # 2 BFP 03/02/13 = CP, BFP 05/14/13 = CP, BFP 08/09/13 = CP

    RPL testing = normal

    TI Cycle #1, 50 clomid days 3-7, 150 iu Follistim days 8-11 = BFP! EDD May 22, 2014

    Betas: 13 DPO = 79, 15 DPO = 149, 19 DPO = 788, 22 DPO = 2031

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  • mm29mm29 member
    We have been happily married for 7.5 yrs :)
    ::: Married June 2003:::
    TTC #1 since: Aug. 2008
    Me: 34, DOR, MTHFR-A1298C (heterozygous), decreased blood flow to uterus, Mild Endo
    DH: 38, Balanced translocation 5&10, unexplained MFI, normal SA and SCSA
    Tx History: IUI 1&2= BFN
    IVF# 1 W/ICSI= BFN
    IVF# 2: cancelled d/t no response
    IVF# 3= 1 egg retrieved=immature/not viable
    IVF# 4= c/p
    ***CCRM ODWU***
    Found DHs BT and Me-decreased blood flow to uterus
    Recommended DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture. Decided to cycle locally
    ***New RE***
    DE IVF# 1(cycle #6) w/pgd, (freeze all): 30R, 23M, 15F, slow/poor embryo development, 4 biopsied, 1 Normal "Norm"; DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture. 
    IVF# 6: (OE/DS) cancelled
    IVF# 7: (OE/DS) 1R, 1M, 1F, arrested day 5
    Plan-DE IVF# 2 (cycle #8): DE/DS in May 2015

    http://icanhazbabyz.blogspot.com/
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  • Nwlywed07Nwlywed07 member
    I remember when my husband would freak out right after we got married when I would forget a pill (I used to be awful at remembering!) and now I think about that $30 we could have saved every month since I didn't really need any help not getting pregnant! I was all for having kids right after we got married, but being the compromising wife, I waited until he was ready...2 years later. Oh well...someday, right? : )
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