Well DH just got his orders for Ft. Lewis and I am so not looking forward to it. It is so far away from family and everyone I know. I'm currently in FL so that is the other side of the country for me. Not to leave out the fact that I'm taking my mother's first and only grandchild away only to see her maybe twice a year. My family believes in very close bonds and I've never lived more than two hours away from them. On the other hand I must be in DH corner especially seeing as that we have a 2 mth. old son and its our first. I don't know anyone and will be leaving a job I love. I know I will meet other wives and can find another job but this is all to much.I only prepared myself for the East Coast mentally. I really don't want to go and it's cold there!!! Just out of curiosity I priced flights and they are expensive and 8 hrs. on average, that's crazy when traveling alone with a NB. Help!!!!!!!!!