Spill it, ladies...

mchupie · December 2010

What are you most looking forward to about post-partum sex?

And of course I mean after the 6-8 week dry spell that follows birth...uggh...

Fergie+1 · December 2010

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AppleMomma · December 2010

Not having the big bump in the way and all the pain that comes with even trying to get intimate! Oh and a confession. I jumped back into sex 3 weeks PP after DS!

ladipale · December 2010

well considering we're going on an almost 6 month dry spell already (thanks cervical polyps and LOTS of spotting), I'm just looking forward to sex.

mchupie · December 2010

I just haven't been able to get into it...I like being on top but I just feel ridiculous with a giant bouncing belly haha

mishu917 · December 2010

Fergie+1:
Lol- HAVING sex! DH refuses since the last 2 weeks because he's afraid of hurting me or LO. :

It's the other way around in this household, I don't know why I'm so scared. I want to but then I chicken out. He is not pushy or anything though but I can tell he wants some esp bc he knows of the 6 weeks post partum haha.

armybaby06 · December 2010

different positions, you can only do ones so many times before it becomes mundane. Also, being able to get comfortable.

Tz's_Bride_2B · December 2010

More variety than 2-3 positions, the closeness without a bump, actually doing it... I feel like I could just continue listing things. Pregnant sex has not been my favorite thing about pregnancy that is for sure.

jjohnson6 · December 2010

I can't wait to HAVE SEX AGAIN! Everytime we would, it followed with spotting so it made DH really nervous. I am probably the one who voices how excited I am to have sex again. When we have pregnant, I don't like the belly in the way and somehow I feel weird having sex in front of my unborn child.

had720 · December 2010

mchupie:
I just haven't been able to get into it...I like being on top but I just feel ridiculous with a giant bouncing belly haha

This. It is funny to have my belly just there, bouncing around. We have tried and will continue until Sophee gets here. My DH may not want to as we get closer to her birth.

discovolante · December 2010

I'm in the boat of just having sex again too! DH has wanted nothing to do with it for weeks now

hjk5000 · December 2010

ANY other position except this modified doggie style where I'm bent over the bed. It's the only one that works at this point and I am SO SICK OF IT.

pawcall · December 2010

yeah, I'm just looking forward to HAVING post-partum sex. I don't think I've been dry this long since before my first time.

dxiechicken41 · December 2010

drunk slutty sex haha

ildali · December 2010

mchupie:
I just haven't been able to get into it...I like being on top but I just feel ridiculous with a giant bouncing belly haha

AMEN to that, although I think I will try and get more in the mood towards the end like at 37-38 weeks to get things moving

mchupie · December 2010

dxiechicken41:
drunk slutty sex haha

Ha! Oh yes, how could I forget this...

emmacwn · December 2010

I'm actually really scared about sex after baby.

We've kept it going through out the pregnancy though I am totally over burping in DH's face during foreplay.

But I'm worried that I will feel totally unsexy after baby arrives - with milk filled boobies, a flabby tummy and a stretched out hoohoo... I'll take my giant preggie tummy over these.

LizzyB11 · December 2010

I am just looking forward to having sex again. I am ready to have one person inhabiting my body. That includes getting to have fun with DH again in any position we want!

RedZee · December 2010

dxiechicken41:
drunk slutty sex haha

SO this!

We were in Kohl's the other day and passed lingerie and I was just missing being able to put on something sexy. (And I'm so scared it won't look sexy after I give birth anyway.)

Also, just having it NOT feel like a medical procedure/blooper reel. It's not even remotely sexy by the time I arrange pillows and move into position. I want it and miss it and thinking of the 6 weeks post-partum makes me crazy.

That said, we planned to try to get the baby out using that method starting today, so let's see if DH is up for it.

RHitch · December 2010

hjk5000:
ANY other position except this modified doggie style where I'm bent over the bed. It's the only one that works at this point and I am SO SICK OF IT.

This EXACTLY!! I used to love being bent over, but at this point, it is just old! I need some variety in my life.

vegansprout · December 2010

mchupie:
I just haven't been able to get into it...I like being on top but I just feel ridiculous with a giant bouncing belly haha

THIS!!! There is a mirror within eyeshot of our bed and whenever I get a glance of this with my huge belly I am astounded DH doesn't laugh through the whole thing!

Also, I'm looking forward to thinking about sex as something other than "well, this will be good for me to stretch--it's like yoga!" DH doesn't seem to mind my "creativity" in positioning that is driven solely by my interest in stretching out my legs and back in ways that I don't always get to do!

allobosc · December 2010

My libido plummeted and I mean plummeted PP after DS...like until I got PG again. I'm praying it doesn't happen this time again.

ABizzity · December 2010

dxiechicken41:
drunk slutty sex haha

For realz! haha! We havent had sex in months, I am just looking forward to any kind of action.

Thankful1121 · December 2010

Having sex that doesn't hurt...we have only had sex 3 time since we got the BFP, and it is so uncomfortable. Thank goodness I have an awesome DH who is very understanding and doesn't want to hurt me and hasn't asked or guilted me into it. He is AWESOME!

skoogirl · December 2010

Orgasms. I miss orgasms.

Spazzy1 · December 2010

I am looking forward to getting through it without having to reposition myself/pillows/him/etc just to be comfortable... I want it to be fun again!!

murphythiel · December 2010

mchupie:
I just haven't been able to get into it...I like being on top but I just feel ridiculous with a giant bouncing belly haha

Amen! I can't even balance on top!!

Mikejustine · December 2010

cdobry01:
yeah, I'm just looking forward to HAVING post-partum sex. I don't think I've been dry this long since before my first time.

this

izzourclue · December 2010

I'm looking forward to not feeling gross "down there" from the extra stuff. I'm also looking forward to this nasty varicose vein to shrink so I don't have a swollen vag anymore. And of coarse being able to move around again. So far pregnant sex hasn't been bad or painful, just a little awkward being so big and I just don't feel sexy anymore. DH is still totally into it though which does help my self-esteem.